22/03/2026
Last week in dance class, this was me on the left.
I was SO frustrated.
I couldn’t remember the choreography, my body just wouldn’t do what it was supposed to do, and it felt like everyone around me was getting it so much faster.
A few years ago, I probably would’ve left thinking: “This isn’t for me. I don’t belong here. This isn’t fun.”
But this time, I did something different.
I consciously chose a growth mindset.
And it honestly felt like putting on a completely different pair of glasses.
Suddenly, the struggle wasn’t proof that I “can’t do it”.
It became proof that I’m learning.
The confusion, the mistakes, the awkwardness - they weren’t something to avoid anymore.
They were part of the process.
Even the people around me who picked it up faster stopped feeling intimidating and instead became proof that it’s learnable.
I literally told myself: “I’m excited to be in a situation that challenges me. Because if I only ever do what I’m already good at, I don’t grow.”
So I practiced.
And one week later, this is me on the right.
Not perfect.
But so much more confident.
So much more free.
Yes, the 2nd class was definitely more fun.
But the class before?
That was when I showed myself that I am someone who stays. Who learns. Who doesn’t give up on myself.
So yes, I’m also proud of the version of me on the right for reaping the rewards of practice.
But I’m even more proud of the version of me on the left for staying when it was hard, messy, and uncomfortable.
And this is exactly why a growth mindset is so foundational in positive psychology.
Because all the tools - gratitude, strengths, habit change - only make sense if you also believe that change is actually possible.
So maybe this is your reminder to not just celebrate the version of you that “gets it right”.
But to be even more proud of the version of you that dares to step into the arena of life - messy, vulnerable, courageous & wholehearted.
Who has the courage to be bad at something.
Who chooses to show up anyway, without any guarantee of how it will turn out.
Thanks to for pushing us to grow every week!
Choreography by & .schoepf
Music by FLO