29/05/2026
Part 2 ~
And I want to be clear, this wasn’t simply about losing a job. There was a lot more to this story and a lot more impact than most people realised at the time.
Looking back now, I do understand it differently.
What I don’t think many people understood at the time was the impact this had on me. This wasn’t something I simply “got over.” It affected my confidence, my sense of safety, my trust in myself, and it took me a few years to rebuild parts of my life that had been deeply shaken.
What I have learned is that healing cannot depend on justice arriving. Sometimes it does, and sometimes it doesn’t. But our lives cannot remain on hold while we wait for it.
Healing doesn’t come from another person’s accountability. It comes from slowly reclaiming ourselves, our voice, our sense of safety, and our lives.
There is much more I want to say about all of this, and perhaps I will in time. For now, I simply wanted to share this part of my story.
If you have ever found yourself waiting for justice, acknowledgement, or an apology that never came, please know you are not alone. 🖤