08/05/2026
BELONGING
What belonging means to me! When I talk about belonging, I am talking about belonging to my inner standards and my inner integrity and following my feelings with clear inner boundaries that I live honestly. Not the belonging to a group of people but belonging to me.
I do not mean that I cannot be part of a group of people and enjoy being there but if by being with people I still can keep my standards and do not change them to suit the situation and give away my inner integrity to myself but stay true to what I feel and follow my inner path.
Belonging is my investment and service in myself and my plan of who I want to be and build myself into that fulfillment and I am being of service to my inner feelings and standards because this is my thrust “Finding my Niche is only the Beginning”. One of the most important things for me is that I live my life and not someone else’s version of what they need but my version of staying loyal to myself and be my unique self, the real me.
This all comes to down to really understanding my needs which for me are the spiritual part of me “I need to feel free” - a pivot point. Wants are the more practical side. “I want to feel free” is how to accomplish different ways to feel free in many different areas – feeling free to do what I want with nothing stopping me. (legally and without hurting other people).
When I Belong, I am owning the place I am in currently and learning and growing in the now. When I direct my energy into a project, I am 100% invested in what I am learning so I can find value for myself everything I am learning in the moment. The stepping stones in the project and learning how to sort it out and learn from everything without getting caught in society’s ideas of how to make it work or my way that works for me and anyone I am working on the project so we all get fulfillment from the situation.
