04/03/2023
Saturday morning musings ✨
When I first made this wall hanging it was for no one and no reason, I just knew I needed to make it.. so it got added to my home collection, which I didn’t mind, cause she’s pretty cute right ? 😏
Last year after we moved to Darwin, my daughter Ryann was having a particularly hard time adjusting. She was riddled with separation anxiety around going to school, she didn’t want to do anything or go anywhere but be with me. It was very hard to watch as she had never been like that.
I understand, I have my own anxiety I deal with and I know how I feel and react when the big A-hole taps on my shoulder, but dealing with my daughters too, it’s a whole different beast.
I think Ryann is most like me in the sense of her personality, she reminds me a lot of me as a child. Whether or not that’s a good or bad thing for years to come, who knows! 😂 but I think I empathize with her reactions and feelings because I understand where her big feelings come from.
Sometimes, as I know myself, there’s no coming out of it. There’s nothing anyone can do or say. It’s just a time thing. So one day, I was sitting at home, I’d just got off the phone to my daughters teacher about her anxiety around school and coming to class, I looked up at this wall hanging and I remembered how much Ryann loves it.
*light bulb moment💡*
So the next day, we took it into her class and with her teachers permission, we found a spot to hang it right above a nice cosy quiet time area. So whenever Ryann was feeling anxious or sad, she could go sit in that little nook and feel closer to me and to home. Which was amazing.
I love how healing art can be. It helps me while I make it and helped my daughter after i was done. Which in turn helps me a little more because I can breathe easier knowing she feels a little at ease and I know she’s okay. ❤️