21/04/2026
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What a difference it makes in our mindset and our teaching when we presume competence in our students and embrace the understanding that what may look like "bad behavior" is quite possibly the response of a brain-body disconnect.
Our student Ethan Statter wrote these words to share about his experience of disconnection and struggle between his brain and body.
Hero or Villain
Oftentimes in life, people experience feeling like a villain and a hero. This is something I feel quite often. I am a villain to myself, when I can’t control my body.
The brain body disconnect I feel is real. It’s hard to describe.
Imagine an angel and a devil. The angel is my brain telling me everything I want and need to do. The devil is my body losing control and taking over.
Imagine what this daily battle feels like, when you know right from wrong.
My brain is the hardest working part of my entire being. I gear up for the war against my body each day, wondering if they will ever agree.
The angel has to win.
I have to love my body but how can I when it’s in a constant battle against me. Who am I? Am I my brain or my body? I’m tired of being torn in two.
I need to give myself grace. The grace to succeed and permission to love myself, even in moments of weakness.
Notes from Ethan: I was inspired to write this poem when my brain and body were not cooperating with one another. The challenges nonspeaking autistic humans face can be tough. At times our bodies don't match our thoughts. Hence the devil and angel comparison. The brain body disconnect is something I write about frequently because it is misunderstood. I know the others in this community can relate. We have to stick together.
[id: a photograph of Ethan sitting with his arms and legs crossed, chin resting on his hands. He is gazing toward the ground. Some words from Ethan's portion of the caption are printed on the photo in white text with teal accents.]