19/08/2026
I’m still recovering from the flu and loosing my voice. It’s been a big couple of weeks and my stress load has been high. Staying in bed felt like a sensible choice!
But I noticed something.
The resistance I was feeling wasn’t my body saying no.
It was just the discomfort of starting - the gap between warm bed and cold morning. Two minutes of uncomfortable that I knew would pass the moment I got moving.
So I went. And gave maybe 60%. And it was exactly what I needed to feel energised and not drained.
This is what I’ve learnt over the years:
There are 2 kinds of resistance.
One is your body genuinely asking for rest. This is when you feel depleted, unwell, running on empty. That one deserves to be listened to.
The other is the friction of beginning. The rain when you need to leave the house. The cold floor before your exercise session. That two minutes of “I don’t feel like it” that disappears the moment you start (or occasionally half way through the session 😂).
Learning to tell the difference is one of the most useful things you can do for your wellbeing.
Because when you can tell them apart you stop pushing through when you need rest AND, you stop letting friction talk you out of the things that actually fill you up.
It takes practice.
But once you start noticing, life starts to feel more balanced.
What’s one thing you almost talked yourself out of recently, and you’re glad you didn’t?
Keep noticing - practice makes progress 😉