10/08/2026
We don’t often talk about the difficult parts. So here I am, trying to do that a little more. Because sadness, hopelessness and uncertainty deserve space too.
I don’t remember most of my childhood. But one of my clearest memories is of a 7 (or maybe 8, 9?) year-old girl staying up until 1am to do her Fine Art homework. Not because she had to. Because she wanted to.
I still remember the orange-yellow sunset she made with pastels, and the magical feeling of looking at that painting and thinking: “This is what I created.”
Like many Asian kids, I grew up with the idea that becoming a doctor was the safe path. My dad wanted that for me because he wanted me to have a secure life. But that little girl kept hoping that one day, she could make more of those sunset paintings.
In Year 12, I finally found the courage to tell my dad. He said no. After a lot of sadness, anger and tears, I told him, “I can become a doctor, but I’ll resent you for the rest of my life.” He said nothing. The next day, he told me to do what I wanted and live the life I wanted. He would support me.
Since then, I’ve stepped outside society’s idea of a “safe” life more times than I can count.
And today, I’m so proud to say: I am an artist.
I make things that may not always be measurable. I create space for people to feel, connect and be themselves.
And even though I get to live my dream life, it’s still hard as hell. A few days ago, I watched The Devil Wears Prada 2, and one line stayed with me: “Why do we keep sucking the soul out of our lives?” I saw myself in Andy, frustrated watching art, fashion, design, journalism and culture being pushed aside by technology, AI, finance and efficiency.
So I’m grateful. Grateful that I get to keep making things, noticing beauty, and making space for art, soul and tenderness in a world that doesn’t always know how to value them.
I never used to think that what I do was important. But it is.
To every artist, creative, maker, writer, musician, designer, and dreamer - thank you for continuing, even when you feel underappreciated. Thank you for breathing hope & soul into this world.
Images: Lana Adams & The Mill by Neasan McGuiness