17/09/2026
We make others people responsible for things that is ours to own,
We put our faith into systems and things that will get us to where we want to go,
Never once stopping and realising that we have a role in this,
I see it all the time,
We make our partner responsible for our happiness and pleasure
We make our business the measure of our worth,
We believe products will bring us closer to divinity,
We blame systems and people for why things arenât going our way,
Where is the self responsibility in this?
When I left abuse for the final time I realised the role I played in this,
I am not condoning anyoneâs behaviour or violence or abuse in any way,
BUT
I have choice and role in how this plays out.
Abuse rarely happens to a woman who has embodied her power and has a pure connection to self, who is self- responsible.
Realising that ME and me alone is responsible for how this plays out was the most empowered thing I hav ever done to myself,
It allows me to have an epic relationship,
A business that I feel blessed to have and serve in the way that I do,
It is perfect,
HELL NO.
I am flawed and imperfect and get it wrong all the time,
But I am devoted to coming home to self,
Designing a life I am wildly turned on by,
And never outsourcing my power, pleasure and purpose to any thing or anyone.
Sure people, products and things might get there faster or easier⊠but itâs not sustainable, itâs not true and real, and itâs not long term, itâs a short term gain and cycle that can be hard to get off, but once you do, it changes you for the better for all time.
The last couple of spots are left for working with me this year, message me and chat about it x