19/08/2026
If your child asks for one more drink, one more toilet trip, one more question every single night, there's a reason nobody has explained to you.
It isn't a stalling problem. It isn't a manipulation problem either.
For a lot of neurodivergent kids, bedtime is the moment the day's sensory load finally catches up with them. Their body has been holding it together all day. Lying still in the dark with nothing to distract them is when that regulation starts to slip. Asking for one more thing is often a way of staying connected to you, because connection helps a dysregulated nervous system feel safer. Generic advice says "hold the boundary" and stops there. It doesn't ask why the boundary feels so hard to hold in the first place.
So the extra requests aren't a failure on your part, and they're not your child testing you. Their body is telling you it's not ready to let go of the day yet.
Once we understand what's actually happening underneath, bedtime stops being a nightly battle and starts being something we can support.
DM "SLEEP" and I'll send you the free guide.