Conjola Counselling SEQ

19/05/2026

You may remember OMEGLE - came along around the time of Chat Roulette - pairing users on a we**am and full of naked men doing what naked me do on a we**am. Well here is the latest incarnation. OMOGGLE which is not covered by the new SM bans in Oz but highly problematic. This is why the ban is useless - ten platforms only captured and this gives parents a false sense of security. Thanks to Kaur for this information

09/05/2026

The Defiance Iceberg

Beneath the behaviour lies the vulnerable child – coping with emotions and needs that aren’t easy to express.

When we only respond to the tip of the iceberg, we miss the whole story.
Look beneath defiance… and you’ll see a child asking for help.

In our Misunderstood Defiance: the Vulnerable Child Toolkit for Parents & Educators is a range of checklists and information sheets for you to explore what is going on for the defiant child.

Electronic download available at link in comments.

22/04/2026

A little something that might help the children and youth in your lives. We can run sessions regarding conflict resolution skills and bullying, make an appointment today!

27/03/2026

You can care deeply and still worry about getting it wrong.

But being there for someone isn't about having the perfect words or solutions to their challenges. It's about giving them the space to talk about what they're going through and reminding them they're not alone.

For tips on how to have supportive conversations visit: ruok.org.au/how-to-ask

18/03/2026

💡 Connection before correction.
When kids are overwhelmed by big emotions, their brains are in survival mode. That means lectures, discipline, and problem-solving usually won’t land yet.
First we connect. Then we teach.

Try scripts like:

• “I can see you’re really upset right now.” • “That was really frustrating, huh?” • “I’m here with you. Let’s take a minute.” • “Your feelings make sense.” • “Let’s calm our bodies first and then we’ll figure this out together.”

When kids feel understood, their nervous systems start to settle and that’s when they’re able to learn, listen, and repair.

Connection doesn’t mean there are no limits. It means we help regulate first, then guide behavior.

☀️ Empowering Kids Media

11/03/2026

A great resource for stakeholders and parents. Take a look!

Let’s work together to make sure our next generations are digitally literate, critical thinkers 🧠

Our new and updated resources help educators take a whole-school approach to building the skills under-16s will need to have social media accounts.

Designed for educators, program providers and school leaders, these resources focus on strengthening students’ digital resilience. Help prepare students to:
💡 think critically
🕵️‍♀️ explore thoughtfully
🎨 create responsibly
👷‍♀️ build healthy and respectful relationships.

Find the range of classroom resources and lesson ideas, including a range of digital literacy activities for Foundation-Year 12 classes here: https://news.esafety.gov.au/3NcKkuP

14/02/2026

Not everything gets better by morning.

Sometimes the kindest thing you can say to someone who has had a tough day is, “That sucks. Want to talk about it?”. Avoid dismissing and instead acknowledge how hard it may be and give them the opportunity to vent.

30/01/2026

23/12/2025

17/11/2025

An urgent recall has been issued for a popular kids' product.