Eliana's Story - The Fight To Save Her

Eliana's Story - The Fight To Save Her At 20 months old Dr's discovered a very large inoperable brain stem & Cerebellum tumor & severe hydrocephalus in Eliana's head.

This is her story; Her struggle to survive. And her Momma’s fight to save her & make the most of each day for her & her sister

Eliana has continued to improve, for the most part.  We've had very few instances of her balance disappearing (and nothi...
09/06/2026

Eliana has continued to improve, for the most part. We've had very few instances of her balance disappearing (and nothing of anything worse) in the last few weeks, and just the odd rash from the cancer meds and diarrhea only every few days on average. Knowing that the future is definitely not promised, I chose no to wait until she was eligible for a Make A Wish trip (she has to be 3 to apply), and took her to Disneyland last week to meet her absolute favorite 'friends'. When I told her, she kept saying 'oh boi!' excitedly, which was so cute.

It was brutally hot, but she was over the moon to meet Jessie and Woody, among others. It was amazing to see her joy against the backdrop of her doing well. Those are moments and memories that my other daughter and I will hold close, and I'm so thankful I was able to find ways to make the trip happen for her (let me just say that Airmiles/Blue Rewards is a Godsend!). Juggling cancer meds and fasting schedules on planes and in Disneyland was challenging, but I was able to maintain her normal schedule, and the bleach baths and other daily requirements she needs to have the best chance of staying healthy on these meds.

She's been through so much this past 9 months, it was so nice to just get to see her SO happy and doing well. I pray she continues to defy the odds and do well. She's a STRONG girl, so I am hopeful. I have to be.

9 months ago I never thought she would be here now; Never thought she'd have the chance to do something like this. I am so grateful for the gift or time, and the miracle that her current condition is allowing - 9 months ago we never expected her to have balance again, or to ever walk, and it was a question mark as to whether or not she would be able to speak again. This time and her current health is truly a gift from God and I am beyond thankful.

09/04/2026

September is childhood cancer awareness month. It has me reflecting maybe even more than I do already these days. 6 kids in Canada a month...only 6 kids are diagnosed everyday in Canada. 'Only'. When your child is one of those 6, its not 'only' anymore. It changes you fundamentally. I have ridden the trauma roller coaster every single day for nearly 9 months now. That scrambles your brain and nervous system. It gives you 'trauma-brain', which then messes with the other systems in your body. For me, to the point where it is hard to function sometimes because of the chronic pain it has caused. Because your child is what is truly important, you stuff it down, try to ignore it, but the trauma hits just keep coming.

I think about the impact on her sister and greater family. And then I think that there are 6 more families every day that are thrown into this tornado. Yet we pour money into adult cancers somewhere around 95x more than pediatric ones. That makes me sick to my stomach, and I don't know what to do with it.

I hope none of you are ever one of the 6 families, I truly do. Even if your child does well for a time, that doesn't mean much, because everything changes so fast and absolutely nothing is certain, except in our case where a bad outcome eventually is inevitable. I'm still not sure, after all this time, how you process that information in any kind of a healthy way.

08/21/2026

These days you would rarely have any indication that there was anything wrong. This girl is so strong, thank God. I have the latest scans, and the tumors are still so large, and active, but oncology says they haven’t grown in the last 3 months. Deep breath

I’m still in shock, so bear with me, but…I got an email from oncology today that said Eliana is NOT considered terminal ...
08/13/2026

I’m still in shock, so bear with me, but…

I got an email from oncology today that said Eliana is NOT considered terminal now.

I still am in absolute disbelief. I had to just sit and cry in my truck when I got it. For 8 months we’ve been living with constant fear. Every symptom that comes and goes, every strange way of breathing on the monitor, every morning when I wake up before her and automatically hold my breath scared of what I will find. Everything. Every minute, for 8 months. This will take some time to process, but it is nothing short of a miracle. Man, my girl is tough!! ❤️

Stable!  The biggest tumor is down nearly 10% since Feb and not at all since May, and no change in the other one, but no...
08/08/2026

Stable! The biggest tumor is down nearly 10% since Feb and not at all since May, and no change in the other one, but no new growth. Stable is the hope now going forward. And that she continues to tolerate the meds. This pic was her ready for her sleep study. Not fun. 24 leads all over her. She handled it amazingly, I must say. She really is a remarkable little girl ❤️

There is so much I don't put on here lately, because I feel like a broken record.  No balance, painful blotches all over...
07/31/2026

There is so much I don't put on here lately, because I feel like a broken record. No balance, painful blotches all over her skin, diarrhea (and the painful rashes that goes with it) loss of words etc....it all comes and goes. Every week, sometimes every day, even hour to hour. Sometimes the symptoms go on for days. It is frustrating for her, and both terrifying and exhausting for me.

This week started with a few really bad days, followed by a couple of good ones, then yesterday....not a good day. She had diarrhea in the morning and no balance (and now has a shiner from falling and hitting the corner of her toybox with her cheek bone), and the blotches started appearing again int he afternoon. By evening it was ROUGH.

Today is another day, and I'm hoping its a better one. But the roller coaster we are on will not stop, and I'm weary. I get angry at myself for that, because she finds ways to smile no matter what. This is happening to HER, and she still finds ways to smile. She is nothing short of incredible.

On Sunday morning Eliana was having some tummy troubles that were pretty bad, and her tummy was SO distended.  I put her...
07/22/2026

On Sunday morning Eliana was having some tummy troubles that were pretty bad, and her tummy was SO distended. I put her down for her nap, and my girl that usually runs around 97.3 was 105.1 when I got her up, and her rash was ANGRY and you couldn't touch her arms without her crying in pain. This girl normally has a high pain threshold. So it was off to the hospital for some bloodwork, and just in case she went south (because I know all too well how fast that can happen with her when something is wrong).

After a few hours at the hospital, the temp resolved, then dipped so I had to put her coat on (normal for Eliana). She was feeling FINE, vitals were good, and she was evading me in fun and charming all at the nurses station. By then it was 845 (way past bedtime for her, and because of her med schedule, sleeping in can't happen), so I signed her out AMA and went home, checking to make sure that if there were anything that showed on her labs when they finally came back that someone would call me. I know my girl, I know when she is fine, and when she is not. I also know her disease and all that comes with her treatment. Maybe more than our local doctors do, because the disease and treatment are so very rare that none of them have likely ever seen this before. Anyway, all this to say that I did not recklessly leave; I knew she was fine, and that if that changed that I could have her back there in 20 minutes or less. The ER resident doc that phoned later did not appreciate any of this, and I understand why. Lets just leave it at that...

When we got home that night, Eliana was in FINE form, teasing her older sister, and chasing the dogs around having fun. She went to bed and slept all night with no issues, and we have not seen any fever since. Her rash was better the next day, and nearly gone today.

So some research on all this that I did late into the night the first night shows me that she more than likely has developed 'Sweet Syndrome'. From all that I have been able to find out, it is rare, but when it occurs it is not uncommonly associated with the BRAF inhibitors (the cancer meds that Eliana is on) as a rare side effect. It is usually easily treated with steroids when it flares up, but if left can cause swelling in internal organs, infection etc, any of which could be dangerous for Eliana. I had calls with Oncology the day after the hospital, and a meeting with them today. They did an urgent referral to Dermatology, as a biopsy will be needed to diagnose this formally. I'm not sure how that works....you can't schedule a biopsy for something that comes and goes....so we'll see how that works out. In the least, I should have prednisone on hand for when it flares like it did on Sunday. Our appointment is in 3 weeks or so, when we are at BCCH for Eliana's quarterly scans and other tests.

Today Eliana had her first assessment of her deforming big toes that started a couple months ago. Because of her genetic 2Q13 microdeletion, the middle bone in her big toes is really short. This, together with how she has to walk because of the balance issues (thank you tumors) and her weight (also, thank you tumors), means that she is using the ends of her big toes heavily for balance, and it is curving them upwards, to the point that her toe nails are now bent in half. Thankfully, it was assessed as not being a nerve or tendon issue. To prevent long-term deformation, I have to do exercises now every day with her to make sure that the tendons in the top of her feet don't shorten as a result. There is nothing that can be done about the nails, but I have to be extremely careful that she doesn't get dirt in them as they will now be at even higher risk for infection, which already was high because of the medications she's on.

So its been an interesting few days....never boring on this roller coaster that life has put us on.

She had so much fun at the water park tonight. And someone stopped me when we were leaving, to tell me how cute she is. ...
07/17/2026

She had so much fun at the water park tonight. And someone stopped me when we were leaving, to tell me how cute she is. I went back after I got Eliana in the truck to thank them. And explain. People used to stop me all the time to say how cute she was. That hasn’t happened in months-pretty much since she gained all the weight from the tumors. It has made me so sad for her. The world is really a LOT about how you look, honestly. It was a gift what they did. That’s what it felt like. I’m so thankful I stopped on a whim at the park, because my girl had fun. It was a good day.

This captures Eliana’s spirit so perfectly!She has been doing fairly well, on and off, the last few days. She’s happy re...
07/15/2026

This captures Eliana’s spirit so perfectly!

She has been doing fairly well, on and off, the last few days. She’s happy regardless, and that means everything. I am so thankful for this gift of time that we’ve been given. Time and hope are everything.

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