Kaitlyn Sandher Counselling

05/21/2026

When postpartum "support' shows up dressed as shame 🤡

05/20/2026

POV: motherhood built skills your resume never got credit for 🍼

Project management.
Leadership.
Crisis management.
Communication.
Adaptability.
We just don’t label it as “experience.”

Send this to a mom who needs the reminder.
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05/04/2026

Motherhood can feel heavy in ways no one really prepares you for.

The anxiety.
The overwhelm.
The identity shifts.
The quiet moments where you wonder, “Is this normal?”
You don’t have to carry that alone.

I’m Kaitlyn, a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) supporting moms through the parts of motherhood that often go unspoken.

🌿 In-person sessions in Maple Ridge
💻 Virtual sessions across BC

If you’ve been thinking about therapy, this can be your first step.

✉️🤍Learn more or book: link in bio
🌐 www.kaitlynsandhercounselling.ca

04/27/2026

04/23/2026

Silence doesn’t protect anyone.
It just leaves people unprepared.

04/22/2026

Somewhere along the way, we lost the village and started believing we were supposed to do it all alone🦋🌈

But we were never meant to.

You’re not overwhelmed because you’re failing. You’re overwhelmed because you’re carrying something that was always meant to be shared.
🤍🤍🤍
We were meant to be held, too.
To have hands that help.
To have eyes that notice.

04/17/2026

🦋Postpartum doesn’t peak at 6 weeks

For many moms, 6–9 months is when it ACTUALLY gets heavy.
Check-ins have slowed down.
💤Sleep deprivation has caught up.
🤍You’re expected to be “back” in life again.
⚡The adrenaline is gone.
🤎Hormones are still shifting and regulating.
🙈The identity shift has fully landed.
🌟Your body still feels unfamiliar.

04/16/2026

We’ve normalized asking about "the next baby" as if it’s small talk.

But for many, that question is a collision with birth trauma, grief, PPD, or the quiet realization that their family is already whole.

04/11/2026

No one teaches you how to grieve something the world barely acknowledges 🩷🦋

If this finds you in that quiet, searching kind of grief, you’re not alone in it.

I know how isolating it can feel, and how powerful it is to come across words that finally make sense of what you’ve been carrying.
🌷🌈