06/06/2026
Yesterday, one of my lovely clients and I spent some time exploring her inner child.
Near the end of the session, we were talking about her plans for the evening when she said, “I think we’re going to go pick out some new bubble bath, and then I think we’re going to get taco supplies because I think we really want tacos tonight.”
I laughed and said, “We?”
She looked at me for a second and said, “What?”
I said, “You said we.”
She paused, started laughing, and said, “Oh my gosh, yeah, I did.”
I asked her if she was talking about herself and her younger self, and at that point we were both laughing.
Then we both got a little quiet.
I’ve been thinking about that moment ever since.
In all the conversations I’ve had about inner child work, I’ve never heard someone refer to themselves and their younger self as a team so naturally. There was no intention behind it. She wasn’t trying to make a point or have some big realization. It just came out.
And for some reason, that made it even more meaningful.
It was one of those moments that stopped both of us in our tracks.
She was talking about herself like she was someone worth considering.
Someone worth bringing along.
Someone worth buying the tacos for.
Someone worth taking care of.
It was truly beautiful 🥹
So many of us move through life treating ourselves like a responsibility, a project, or something we just need to get through. We push ourselves, criticize ourselves, and expect ourselves to keep going no matter how tired, hurt, or overwhelmed we are.
Meanwhile, this amazing woman walked out of a session unconsciously planning an evening for herself the same way she would for someone she loved.
And I sat there realizing she had just taught me something, too.