06/03/2026
I need people to understand this: “just go back to Canada” isn’t a simple option, and it’s not financially feasible for me right now. Uprooting a whole life costs real money, and no, I don’t have $60k sitting around to “tear the rug out” overnight. (Unless someone wants to fork that out… then sure, I’d consider it.)
But even beyond the money, what you’re really asking is for me to abandon stability my child needs. My daughter’s autism diagnosis, her supports, and her IEP aren’t things I’m willing to gamble with to make other people more comfortable with their idea of what’s best for my family.
And I’m not leaving my animals behind either. We’re building a safe, supported life where we are, and I’m making decisions based on my child’s needs and our reality, not outside opinions.
Link: https://gofund.me/fe544858f