05/09/2026
Tonight, I listed my wedding dress. 🤍
And honestly?
My first instinct was to throw it up online for $200 and a “please take this emotional support mermaid gown out of my basement immediately.” 🤣
Instead… I sat with it.
And I realized something:
That dress was never just a dress.
It represented the first time in my entire life that I truly opened my heart to the idea of being loved fully.
Before that relationship, I genuinely believed love like that just wasn’t in the cards for me.
I was the strong one.
The independent one.
The single mom.
The woman who held everything together for everyone else.
Love?
Real love?
The kind where someone chooses you gently and intentionally?
I don’t think I actually believed that existed for me.
Then suddenly… at 40 years old… there I was:
Planning a wedding.
Trying on dresses.
Believing in forever.
Actually allowing myself to DREAM.
And in true Teresa fashion…
if I was going to do it — it was going down in the books. 🤣
The dress? Dramatic.
The jewelry? Extra.
The photographs? Absolutely unhinged mountain winter bridal magic.
Because for the first time in my life, I let myself fully step into the moment.
And tonight, listing that dress felt strangely emotional.
Not because I miss the marriage.
Not because I want the story back.
But because I remember the woman who wore it.
The woman who cracked herself open wide enough to believe she could finally be chosen.
And despite how the story ended…
I’m actually proud of her for that.
Because loving again after disappointment, loss, betrayal, survival, and years of protecting your own heart…
…is one of the bravest things a person can do.
So no —
Tonight wasn’t just about selling a dress.
It was about acknowledging a version of me that existed for a moment in time.
And maybe realizing…
She deserved beautiful things too. 🤍