12/06/2026
This will protect your energy like nothing else ❤️🔥
Why?
Because certain situations drain your energy with false hope.
This happens most often when people don't want to face the reality of their impact.
They engage in consistent patterns that cause so much confusion that it exhausts your energy entirely. The hope is that you get so exhausted that you give up.
But there's another option.
Instead of focusing your energy on the impossible task of trying to make someone change, try tapping into your discernment. Evaluate their actions and see if they're creating a dysfunctional cycle meant to keep you stuck.
Here's what to look out for:
Do they need you to abandon and betray yourself so they don't have to face their actions?
Do they give you the silent treatment and make you feel like you need to chase them down?
Do they say they care, but stonewall every time you want to discuss what went wrong?
Do they guilt-trip you, hoping you'll drop it and act as if nothing happened?
Do they only focus on their intentions and dismiss the impact of your experience entirely?
Do they wait for time to pass, act like no damage has been done, and expect you to pretend there are no unresolved issues?
Does it feel like they need you to be a version of you that doesn't even exist?
Does it feel like you have to carry the entire emotional weight of repairing the damage they did to the relationship all on your own?
If you relate to any of this, you probably know that it's never just a one-time thing. It's relentless - and it's manipulative.
It's meant to stop you from "bringing it up."
But here's the thing.
This behavior is common - but it's NOT something that happens in healthy relationships.
This kind of behavior completely undermines close, healthy relationships and creates an unbalanced and dysfunctional cycle.
Breaking free feels almost impossible.
The trick to getting out?
Knowing that closure comes from YOU.
From your clarity. Your discernment. And your self-respect.
You don't always have to cut people out entirely. Sometimes, emotional distance and physical space are enough. And sometimes you need more - it just depends on the situation.
But for real.
Learn that sometimes, the behavior IS the closure.
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