08/04/2026
I am not a list writer. I get very overwhelmed by needing to complete 17 tasks. However, I can no longer keep a running list in my head and I am not the multi-tasker I was before Multiple Sclerosis. These days my family writes out a list for me as I dictate. Since I don't always have energy or time, I pick out what I call, "The Big 3" from the master list. These 3 things are the absolute most important things to get done: Pay that bill, call that doctor, wash the kids PE clothes, get groceries etc. Some days I can do more but The Big 3 are what needs to happen that day no matter what.
We went to Europe for our 20th Wedding Anniversary. We have never traveled internationally and we went to 3 countries so there were a lot of moving parts to this trip.
The night before we left back home, I knew I needed to figure out The Big 3: Laundry, Luggage and Logistics.
We stayed at Airbnbs so I was able to do laundry. It's always nice to come home from a trip with clean clothes to put away rather than 4 suitcases of dirty clothes.
We are carry-on travelers so space was limited. I brought vacuum bags to give us more space in our luggage because we were bringing home a few items we had bought. No one wants to be packing at 4am so we packed up the night before.
Lastly, was logistics to the airport. We ended our trip in Barcelona. You can Uber or take a taxi there pretty easily but there was always a long wait time to get a car. I decided to book our Uber 2 nights before so there wouldn't be any stress on a driver cancelling or a long wait time. It worked out perfectly! He was already there as we walked out to meet him.
Don't shame yourself if you can't get everything done on your list. Pick The Big 3 and take care of those. As a mom with MS, I've had to come up with ways to trick my brain to accomplish items on my To-Do list, solutions to remember things and asking for help if I need it.
Is completing The Big 3 something you'd like to try? Some days it might be The Big 1 or The Big 14. Pick the amount of items that are manageable to you. 🧡🧡