13/05/2026
One of the things I explore with a lot of my therapy clients is the difference between impulse and desire. As a counsellor, somatic trauma therapist, and someone with lived experience of ADHD and Autism, this is something that I also navigate on a pretty much daily basis.
They can feel very similar in the body… but they often come from very different places. And when you’re navigating factors like ADHD, which impacts our relationship to impulses, or other experiences like addiction, OCD and trauma, it can be difficult to know the difference.
If you want to explore this with more depth, head to my blog. Or, if you want to check in with yourself in the here and now you could ask yourself
Do I actually want this… or am I trying to escape discomfort?