16/09/2026
One thing working with children has taught me…
They don't need us to fix every difficult feeling. They don't need to be told to “calm down” when they're overwhelmed. And they definitely don't need to feel like there's something wrong with them because they're struggling.
Sometimes they just need someone to help them slow down. To listen. To understand. To give them space to be exactly who they are. And then, alongside that, give them some simple tools to help them understand what they're feeling and what they can do when those big feelings arrive.
I've spent years working with children, and it's one of the reasons I'm so passionate about the well-being work I now do. Whether it's through Mindful Kids Club, Reiki or the wider well-being work I offer, I want ALL children to know...
Your feelings are okay.
You are allowed to be yourself.
You don't have to have everything figured out.
And you are MORE than enough.
And perhaps that's something we could remind ourselves of as adults too... Because we're not so different really. Sometimes we don't need fixing either. Sometimes we just need to feel safe, understood and supported.
What do you think children need more of today? I'd love to hear your thoughts below. 👇
Love Lou 💜✨