17/10/2026
For
Many years in my career with the NHS
I have fought for people to be seen and heard.
But what I learnt was we don’t need external validation !
What we need is to be seen by ourselves
Notice what you achieved ! Because you have achieved even if you believe you did not think you did!
See yourself for who are !
Be proud of yourself
Validate yourself. And believe in what you do!
We spend so much time looking for outside recognition not only with work, but in relationships.
Once you learn to see your self, you don’t look for external validation which is what I learnt
I know who I am
I know what I stand for
I’m proud of who I am and what I have achieved
I know how
Much work I have put into everything I do
So other peoples option or criticism is not my business 👩💼
It’s theirs it’s their ego jumping in, it’s their triggers speaking and reacting , because not everyone wants to be seen, not everyone feels safe to show themselves. Not everyone wants to look within yourself.
So criticising and having an opinion is your go to negative thoughts because that is easy.
I don’t want easy. I want growth and learning
That why I only work with people who know
That exhaustion
That self critic voice
And they want to change, they want live a life that means something to them. Because being the strong one , the performer, the fixer is bloody exhausting !
Yes I do have qualifications . I have studied human behaviour for years. I do hold the certificates yes, does that mean I am perfect no, because I don’t believe perfect exist.
I believe being curious and understanding and a willingness is what works. !
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