18/05/2026
After a late arrival and just a few hours sleep, we found ourselves sitting in the back of Monica’s taxi as she drove us to the Karen Blixen Museum on the outskirts of Nairobi.
As she asks about our plans for Kenya. She’s fun, friendly, upbeat and completely willing to adapt to whatever we wanted to do.
She’s tenacious, not afraid of hard work and willing to do whatever it takes to pay the bills and survive.
And she’s not alone. Over the next few days, almost everyone we meet has the same can-do attitude.
There’s a willingness to adapt, work hard and to turn their hand to whatever opportunity presents itself.
Ther’s no embarrassment or resentment, but pride, warmth and humour.
One minute someone is driving an Uber, the next they’re a tour guide, fixing something, selling handmade goods or building a side business.
There’s very little sense that certain work is “beneath” them which was incredibly refreshing.
I think many of us hold ourselves back because we become overly concerned with appearances, status or what other people might think.
We worry about failing or looking foolish, about starting too late or not being instantly good at something.
We worry about whether people will judge us for changing direction, trying again, slowing down, speeding up or simply doing things differently.
I speak from first-hand experience.
And meanwhile… life passes us by.
The older I get, the more I realise that there’s enormous freedom in simply getting over ourselves.
Confidence isn’t about having all the answers or looking polished all the time - it’s about being willing to participate fully in life.
The willingness to try something new, remain curious and to keep growing, contributing and doing what needs to be done without attaching your worth to how it looks from the outside.
Ultimately, what other people think of us is none of our business anyway.
And perhaps one of the greatest forms of healthy longevity isn’t just building a stronger body…it’s developing the courage and resilience to keep showing up for life with openness, humility and enthusiasm.
To keep learning, moving, evolving and expanding what feels possible.
What do you think?