15/06/2026
Whilst in Livingstone, Zambia we met some fascinating people - for me that’s one of the beauties of travel. There was Lef - a 26 year old Russian (he looked 16), who’d left home at 18 and became a nomad - travelling (often to the most inhospitable places) and working as a software programmer to fund his lifestyle. He took the most captivating photos to document his travels and wrote a blog to accompany them.
Then there was Aletta - a Dutch woman in her 60s who’d been working on a project in Malawi and on a whim, decided to travel through Zambia. She didn’t have an itemised plan - each day was an adventure for her. She was curious, chatted with everyone and because of that joined us when we went to see the spectacular lunar rainbow at Victoria Falls.
For me this sums up what getting older is about - the capacity to embrace life. Having the strength, energy and confidence to travel, meet people of all ages, stay engaged and curious and able to adapt to different situations and opportunities.
We can choose to stay slumped on the sofa in front of the latest Netflix programme polishing off another packet of biscuits or we can be brave and push ourselves to do something a little different.
One of the biggest myths too many of us are too quick to accept is that getting older is a bit like being strapped to a toboggan and getting pushed off the top of a snowy mountain.
The further downhill you go, the faster you travel, feeling you have absolutely no control over the descent. You’re clinging on for dear life, hoping for the best but truthfully you know you have little influence over how you’re going to crash land at the bottom.
But that story is just that…a story. The wrong story.
Getting older isn’t about losing control but learning how to steer more intentionally.
We can’t stop time but we CAN influence how we move through it… so protecting our capacity to love life may be one of the most important investments we’ll ever make.