05/09/2026
1. I donāt like tea or coffee - Meeting someone for āa coffeeā genuinely stresses me out because I never know what the f**k Iām supposed to order n I donāt feel like a āproperā adult š
2. My accent (āUll - if you know you knowā¦) I laugh along when people take the p**s and usually get in there first by taking the p**s out of myselfā¦ but sometimes it actually does make me feel stupid n I wish I didnāt sound like that.
3. I still have toddler-level meltdowns when plans suddenly change - Turns out, self-awareness doesnāt magically make you better at dealing with it š
4. I overthink conversations Iāve already had.
And then replay them in my head approximately 47 times wondering if I sounded like a complete idiot
5. I often feel really stupid when I trip over my words (often) and when what Iām trying to say comes out all wrong - I sometimes stay quiet out of fear. I wish I sounded more intelligent
6. I donāt have many friends - I tell myself that my circle is small out of choiceā¦ but that little voice still sometimes asks, āMaybe youāre just not very likeable?ā
7. I hate talking about my own achievements - Iāll happily listen to everyone else, but the minute the conversation turns to me, I shut down. Somewhere along the way, I learnt that I wasnāt that important š„ŗ
8. I can look pretty confident from the outsideā¦ while internally Iām questioning myself constantly and wondering when everyoneās going to realise I havenāt actually got a f**king clue what Iām doing š
š§I donāt have all the answers, and I definitely donāt pretend to have it all figured out.
Iām just a woman figuring s**t out, learning as I go and getting ready for the next exciting chapter of my lifeš¤
If youāre rebuilding tooā¦ rethinking the life you have and quietly wondering if there has to be something more, follow along
