08/09/2026
Iâve been having some deep conversations with women in my world this week (and itâs only Tuesday) ..
We place so much of our worth and who we are on what we achieve or produce, but nothing is ever âgood enoughâ
But the real problem isnât that at all.
(because âenoughâ doesnât exist)
Itâs the conditioning weâve been taught.
That weâre only âenoughâ once weâveâŠ.
[insert finished product]
And ONLY THEN can we choose ourselves.
But look how backward that is..
How can you even be a finished product if you donât choose yourself in the first place?
*disclaimer - you donât (and wonât ever be) a âfinished productâ
Youâre a human, that ebs and flows.
That feels emotions.
But youâll never get handed a manual telling you that itâs time to choose yourself, or HOW to choose yourself.
Because secretly, society wants you to choose everything BUT yourself.
Which is why so many women end up burnt out and depleted.
We fall victim to the pressures society expects of us at the expense of ourselves.
Are you hearing what Iâm saying sister?
You didnât come into this world to conform to made up rules, by a world thatâs constantly telling you youâre not good enough.
So in a world that wants you to choose everyone and everything else, I DARE you to choose YOU!
Put YOURSELF first for once.
You donât need to earn it. You DESERVE it.
And thatâs exactly what Self-Love September is all about.
Pouring into YOU every single day, with permission slips from me (but we go so much deeper)
So that by the end of September (and beyond) choosing you no longer feels like a choice, because itâs become your new norm!
Wanna join us? Head to the link in my bio, because itâs not too late (it never is)
đđđ canât wait to have you inside!