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The Ultimate You Guiding people with pain reclaim their lives; supporting clinicians to compassionately care, without bias & burnout

As a clinician, you might feel the need to respond:"Oh.. It was nothing" or "Anyone would have done the same".❌ You attr...
04/06/2026

As a clinician, you might feel the need to respond:

"Oh.. It was nothing" or "Anyone would have done the same".

❌ You attribute your success to luck rather than your own skill and judgment.

This is imposter syndrome.

βœ… Instead, trust in the integrity of your colleague giving the compliment. Receive it - accept it. Notice what starts happening as you do.

02/06/2026

πŸ™‹πŸΎβ€β™€οΈ I used to do this.

And I've watched other clinicians do the same thing:
πŸŒ™ Staying late
πŸ˜ͺ Over-preparing
🚚 Over-delivering
πŸ‘ŒSaying yes to everything!

Only to be exhausted and burnt out, yet the voice is still there...

Doing more doesn't quieten the imposter voice - if anything, it feeds it.

🫡🏾 You are more than a clinician.

But imposter syndrome keeps you stuck in that role.

Who are you outside of work? What do you value? What brings you joy?

Shift your focus and make space for that.

And your patients can benefit when you return to work more refreshed.

Win-win. πŸ’™

You're HUMAN.What you do after a mistake matters more than the mistake itself:πŸ˜” Beating yourself up keeps you stuck.πŸ’‘Not...
28/05/2026

You're HUMAN.

What you do after a mistake matters more than the mistake itself:
πŸ˜” Beating yourself up keeps you stuck.
πŸ’‘Noticing what you'd do differently next time, that's where the growth is.

πŸ’¬ This was a raw, unfiltered conversation about pelvic pain with Dr Sula Windgassen  and  (Endometriosis Foundation), wh...
26/05/2026

πŸ’¬ This was a raw, unfiltered conversation about pelvic pain with Dr Sula Windgassen and (Endometriosis Foundation), where we discussed personal experiences navigating endometriosis and vulvodynia - the years of not being heard, finally getting diagnosed, and finding a way through.

A conversation for anyone living with endometriosis, vulvodynia, vaginismus, and any pelvic pain condition.

And it's one that clinicians really need to hear.

A person living with pain is more than their symptoms. It's time to truly listen.

Pain doesn't exist in isolation. It lives alongside fear, anxiety, stress, loss - and years, sometimes, of not being heard.

When we only treat the body part, we miss the whole picture and other factors that can be amplifying symptoms.

πŸ’› Whole-person care means asking what else is going on. What matters to the person living with pain.

Explore what else may be amplifying their pain beyond just looking at the physical body part. And crucially - actually listening to the answers.

The voices of people living with pain need to be heard. And they deserve clinicians who can hold space and show up for all of it.

Carla, thank you for your openness and honesty in this conversation. And Dr Sula for choosing to highlight such important topics. πŸ’™πŸ™πŸΎ

Links to watch or listen are in the comments.

In a system where uncertainty is often read as weakness, "I don't know" can feel exposing.You'll never have all the answ...
21/05/2026

In a system where uncertainty is often read as weakness, "I don't know" can feel exposing.

You'll never have all the answers - so go with honesty..

πŸ’¬"I don't know yet - let me look into that and come back to you."

Patients want to feel heard, and you holding space, responding with honesty and the intention to follow-through, is more valued.

This is confident practice. πŸ’ͺ

Not knowing isn't the problem. How you hold it is. πŸ€”

You don't have to prove anything.You've earned the right to be where you are right now.Self-worth over perfectionism - e...
19/05/2026

You don't have to prove anything.

You've earned the right to be where you are right now.

Self-worth over perfectionism - every time.

As you learn to be yourself, you'll thrive, not just survive. 🌱

The same drive that makes you a good clinician may be working against you.. The high bar. The self-scrutiny. The sense t...
14/05/2026

The same drive that makes you a good clinician may be working against you..

The high bar. The self-scrutiny. The sense that good enough never quite is.
Sound familiar?πŸ€”

Chasing perfection keeps you in your head. Your patients need you in the room.

Give perfection the boot. πŸ‘’

When you're focused on their growth, you neglect your own. 🌱
07/05/2026

When you're focused on their growth, you neglect your own. 🌱

05/05/2026

Awareness of how imposter syndrome shows up for you can be uncomfortable - but it’s what you choose to do with that awareness that changes things.

Your patients benefit more from you being present enough to truly hear and see them - your focus fully on them not your performance.

You are enough.πŸ’™

πŸ’¬ If you're ready to show up fully - for yourself and your patients - comment "GROWTH" or click the link in my bio to book a free call.

Had a great chat with Mathilde on  podcast today πŸŽ™οΈWe covered:β€’ My own journey with vulvodyniaβ€’ How my breakthrough led ...
30/04/2026

Had a great chat with Mathilde on podcast today πŸŽ™οΈ

We covered:
β€’ My own journey with vulvodynia
β€’ How my breakthrough led to retraining and shaped the work I do today
β€’ Working with people living with vulval and chronic pain
β€’ Cognitive hypnotherapy
β€’ Pain science (it's definitely not all in your head)
β€’ The "best" treatment plan 🧐🧩
β€’ The Vulval Pain Society
β€’ More trainings (the learning never stops) πŸ˜…

Episode dropping this summer β˜€οΈ

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