Belief Transformation with Carly

Belief Transformation with Carly Break free from limiting beliefs and STEP INTO YOUR POWER 💡

31/05/2026

THOUGHTS ON BEHAVIOUR CHARTS AT SCHOOL? Good? Bad? Necessary? 🤷‍♀️

I understand it’s a tool to keep children in check and encourage good behaviour but could it be more a cause for more stress than encouragement? Interested to know what other people think??

On the surface, it seems okay when they are being rewarded but just as my 7 year old has said, it creates pressure to be perfect - is that what we want?

On the flip side, when a child is given a negative stamp, what is it doing to our child’s growing brains and what if they get it wrong?

I have had countless clients of mine go back to memories & moments from school years in which their belief system shifted. It’s these moments which often need the healing and space to be heard.

My child can vividly remember a time in which she was given a red for a situation which was misunderstood. She has played over the injustice, embarrassment, upset over and over again…this is even after we cleared things up and stopped the consequence of loosing her free time.

I’m sure there are quick wins we can learn from children to help shape the school system better…

Any views on what changes would be good?

24/05/2026

SYSTEM FAILURES. Who’s felt the inner rage when a loved one is poorly?? I don’t want to disrespect the doctors or workers, it’s the people responsible for management of these vital services!

Excuse the rant, I had much better plans for my day. Also I feel someone has to be accountable for disrupting my planned day at the beach and our confidence in the health system.

I’m working on letting him let me give him a Belief Coding session, men are harder to convince but I believe it will help as I’ve seen it in action and work miracles.

Who thinks Danny should let me do a session?? 🤗✨

21/05/2026

PARENTING = ADJUSTING, COMPROMISING, LISTENING, DECISIONS, RESPONDING & SACRIFICES.

Let’s stop playing down the role of a parent.
One parent (at least) is always thinking of what’s best for the kids and responding.
Our brains are often thinking on behalf of more than one brain at a time, of course it’s mentally exhausting!

The compromise between parenting to meet children’s needs and working/earning money to meet children’s needs is tough.

I want to raise my children to grow up feeling safe, heard & empowered. To do this, I have to work on regulating my nervous system.

Anyway, let’s hope the early pick up is appreciated today. Happy holidays🤞

19/05/2026

Am I missing a trick here?
I’m more of a ‘just about on time’ kinda girl.
What about everyone else?

18/05/2026

Aligned Action - it shouldn’t be forced, just action to support your goals.

When you are clear on your goals, and the path you are on, opportunities do appear! If your not clear on what your working towards, you’ll miss opportunities.

Get clear on goals which feel aligned, I.e - ‘To deliver well-being workshops within the community to parents’

Self-belief - I trust my intuition and self. I am more then capable.

Patience with timing - I wanted to send my email last week but my week was swallowed up with my families needs, sickness, illness etc. I wasn’t ready. Today I was ready and the universe put me in the right place.

Aligned Action = clear goals & confidence to spot an opportunity & to take it.

Intro done ☑️
Email sent ☑️
Proud of self ☑️

18/05/2026

Misalignment won’t make you happy.

It plays havoc on our mental and physical health. You know this, you feel it. Your body is talking, how are you responding?

Precious energy is being wasted in spaces which don’t support your happiness, peace and health.

Alignment happens when we listen, respond and set goals which feel good.

If your seeking confidence or clarity of the mind for your next chapter? Let’s chat. ❤️

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15/05/2026

SOLUTION TO SCHOOL ISSUES?? 🤣

According to my 7 year old, the answer to solving ‘school problems’ is to exit the school, head to the sweet shop, soft play, toy shop then a quick trip to Selsey…😜

As parents, we can often feel like we’re not meeting our kids needs, what a child thinks they need against what they want are two different things. Recognising the difference removes the guilt.

Staying strong, calm and being thick skinned at times as well 🤣 is 💯necessary!

If you’re struggling with any of these vital parenting tools, I know Belief Coding can help you, like it has me. DM for more information ❤️

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06/05/2026

POWERLESS TO THE SYSTEMS?? Who else has been stung by the systems we put our trust in??

How did it make you feel??

There are quite frankly, many s**t systems we’ll encounter in our journey of adulthood, maybe earlier. It can leave us feeling depleted, angry, upset and more. It can be the trigger for a negative mindset and difficult to spring back from.

Feeling helpless makes us feel powerless. How do we rise above it? Many find themselves choosing negative patterns which don’t support long term goals, it spirals.

Healing offers new beginnings, compassion to self and an invitation to move forward - positively. It ignites power from within and reminds you that you are deserving of everything you want.

If you feel called to start your healing journey or intrigued about what Belief Coding can do, drop me a message or book a free, no obligation call. ❤️

05/05/2026

SUBCONSCIOUS BELIEFS & OUR PARENTING CHOICES ❤️

We all have subconscious beliefs which show up in how we parent. Underlying beliefs show up in our actions and how we respond, especially when dealing with challenging behaviour 🤯

When we have negative beliefs, are they even true? Whose belief’s are they? Their’s or Your’s? Do they benefit the long term goals? Take a moment, breathe and choose how to move forward.

I choose to communicate what she can’t and be consistent with my approach, even when it doesn’t feel easy. I choose not to let my day be derailed and fall behind on my own plans and goals.

Our own mindset holds so much power, I can’t operate well from a rigid mindset. I have the power to change my mindset.

Belief’s can be changed and when we do so, our actions and the outcomes which follow will too 🤞

01/05/2026

Politics, Parenting, Financial Pressure. So many of us are feeling it!

For many mums, like me. They put careers on hold or changed them completely. I’ve adapted, I’ve changed and I want the systems to adapt and give parents the choice to choose how they want to show up as a parent. Our freedom to choose is lacking as a result families and people are suffering.

Parenting changes you, it’s human nature to adapt to new circumstances.

Your intuition isn’t wrong. The systems we’re working with are the problem.

We have to dig deep, stop supporting systems which don’t serve us. We can all start with ourselves, what we allow, how we respond…& Rewiring our belief systems which we thought were going to support us in our parenting journey.

I believe it’s possible to create a life in which you choose, that’s what I help people do.

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