24/08/2026
‼️Human Doing Vs Human Being‼️
I’ve been a little quieter on my page these last couple of weeks or so, and I want to share with you what’s been happening behind the scenes!
Apart from having a very busy season on our little campsite and holiday lets which I manage alongside my healing space, plus the 2 farms, looking after the livestock, (the weather not helping us at all with this) my horses, and the usual day to day running of a household, my own body decided to get very loud with the message that I needed to stop.
My shoulder became immobile and causing excruciating pain, leaving me with use of just one arm! Needless to say I was unable to treat my clients for a while, which created a lot of frustration for me, because they needed me. My sincere gratitude to you all for your kindness, understanding and patience while I got myself back on track! 🙏
So I’ve been focusing on my own healing journey, and although I’m now back treating my clients, my healing is still unfolding.
And this is a profound point that I want to make and share with you all, which I know will resonate with so many, and things we all need to take stock of.
Perhaps this healing has been asking me to stop DOing… and start BEing.
I invite you to consider this in your own lives. Because this whole experience that I’ve been going through, has made me look even deeper at the difference between being a human doing and a human being.
I’m really good at doing! Helping, Working, Caring, Creating, Giving, Supporting, Keeping things moving, Being there for everyone else.
But how often am I actually allowing myself to simply BE? To stop fixing, To stop pushing, To stop trying to make everything happen, To stop feeling that I always need to be productive, useful or needed…
And simply listen. Simply receive. Simply Rest. Simply allow myself to be exactly where I am.
Perhaps my body has been giving me an invitation (feels more like a demand!!) to slow down enough to hear something that the busy part of me couldn’t hear, because of the constant noise.
This has deepened my understanding of healing even more, in a way that no course, qualification or book can ever do.
💫 Because Healers need healing too! 💫
Being a healer doesn’t mean we’re immune to pain, illness, challenges, or moments where life asks us to go deeper within ourselves. We’re not somehow separate from the human experience simply because we support others through theirs. We too, have our moments of pain, vulnerability, uncertainty, frustrations and surrender.
And perhaps that is part of what makes an authentic healer … not being someone who has arrived at some perfect state of healing… but someone who has been willing to walk their own path deeply enough to understand what it feels like to be human.
I know what it feels like to experience physical pain, emotional struggles andtrauma, mental challenges and spiritual questioning. I know what it means to feel lost, to search for answers, to surrender, rebuild and rediscover ourselves.
My compassion comes not only from what I’ve studied, but from what I’ve lived. My whole intention is not to save or fix others – it comes from a place of love and deep understanding. I know what suffering feels like, and it’s my passion and purpose in doing what I do, to support others so they don’t have to go through their own healing journey alone.
I’m not the healer who tells you how to heal from a place of standing above you… I meet you where you are, because I’ve been there too. And I know what courage it takes to seek the help and support.
I’m still learning, I’m still growing, I’m still healing, and still becoming, and will continue to do so until my last breath throughout this human experience.
It’s my greatest passion to follow this path, and share what I’m learning with others so they too, can live a full, happy, healthy life.
I’m embracing this part of my own healing journey rather than resisting it, it’s become one of my greatest teachers, of which I’m truly grateful.
Healing isn’t a destination, it’s a lifelong journey of listening, learning, growing and returning more deeply to ourselves. Sometimes the greatest lessons we receive are the ones we experience ourselves.
So my take home message to myself and to you all is this…
Maybe healing isn’t always about doing more. Maybe sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is nothing at all. To just simply BE. Maybe we simply need to create enough space for the healing that is already within us, to take place.
My deepest gratitude to everyone who has supported me, checked in on me, and trusted me with your own healing journeys. I am so grateful to be back holding healing space for you. 🙏
Because that’s what I do here at Zen Zone … Creating Space where healing can take place. And perhaps that’s what I’m learning to do for myself too.
It’s great to be back and so good to be seeing you all again ❤️