01/06/2026
I always tell you about the beauty (and chaos) of having a big family.
But I don’t often tell you about the guilt. Mainly because most of the time, the positives outweigh this for me personally.
But this weekend, me and Dan took Bam on his own to a Monster Truck festival. Just him. And we have never done that before (even when we were together).
And we didn’t have to say no to anything. He could take the lead in what he wanted to do, when he wanted to do it, without having to consider his older siblings.
He went on his first ever rollercoaster, and while I was watching his little face just light up with joy, I became overwhelmed with emotion.
I cried happy tears that we could do this for him that day. But also so much guilt that we hadn’t done it for him before this.
I know so so many mamas welcoming their second baby soon or have done recently. And it’s true what they say, your love grows, doesn’t spilt. But I will also say this - if you can - take time for each child as an individual too. It’s harder the more children you have I know that all too well. But it’s also even more special when you do.
And for those considering a big family - do it if you can. It’s beautiful and it’s chaotic - but that’s what makes my life so interesting! 😂
And in my classes, you will only pay once for your whole clan, and you’ll all be welcomed with open arms - always! Because I get the reality of it more than most.
Lauren.wearelittlelegs.com
