26/05/2026
I was shocked by the response I got to this.
I put a poll on my stories asking people to rate themselves.
The topic in question was “how well regulated are you?”
I appreciate nervous system regulation is quite a new topic to many…
And they, you, might not be intimately familiar with what good, or bad, regulation might look like.
I’ve been working on this with my clients for a number of years now - so I gave an example list of the symptoms of a poorly regulated nervous system that I see most often.
Irritability.
Low libido.
Racing & intrusive thoughts.
Muscle spasms or eyelid twitches.
Trouble sleeping / Insomnia.
Increasing screen time.
Procrastination & avoidance.
Stiff, sore and slow to recover.
Impulsive purchase behaviour.
Over eating - usually sweet or starchy food.
Increased abdominal body fat.
Over 1,000 of you kindly voted on that poll.
The average score didn’t shock me…
But it did sadden me.
Out of 1-5 [5 being good]…
The average of 1,000 people - was less than 2.
What’s most frustrating, as a coach…
Firstly, is that you will not meaningfully improve under those conditions.
Secondly, is that all of this is entirely avoidable.
It doesn’t require endless time off.
You don’t need to journal for an hour or day…
Become a monk or walk away from anything ‘stressful’
It doesn’t require high tech, fancy protocols - or doing lots ‘more’ stuff.
It just requires a consistent and deliberate approach.
It necessitates active management of the things that are driving you in the wrong direction.
I’ve successfully implemented it with hundreds of clients.
If you read this and saw more of yourself in that list than you’d like…
Solving that is a core tenet of what we do.
Send me a DM.