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Lamashedliving Trauma Informed certified Health Coach, mountain leader, yoga teacher and Iberian horse lover! Ageing is a normal process we all go through.

However accelerated ageing isn't and is largely avoidable! A lot of my friends of a similar age (I’m 51, how did that even happen?!) tell me how ‘brain fog’ is a real thing, weight gain is because they are peri-menopausal and their aches and pains are due to age. Yes they are right in that these are the effects of the ageing process, but lifestyle factors largely influence whether or not these symptoms are experienced and to what extent. I can hand on heart say I have none of the symptoms associated with ageing whatsoever (other than those pesky laughter lines that life wouldn't be the same without!) I have no aches or pains, unless it's due to a full day in the mountains, and no 'brain fog'. This isn't because I'm one of the lucky ones (although I am grateful for what I am able to do and achieve) but is very much down to lifestyle choices... eating whole foods, healthy fats, using chemical-free household and toiletry products and exercising regularly outside as much as possible doing the things that I love. However it hasn't always been this way for me. At the tender age of 45 I was in so much pain I could barely stand upright after sitting down for a period of time at work and found myself barely able to step up a curb when out and about. I certainly didn't have the strength to spend all day out in the mountains, my legs would have undoubtedly given way beneath me. Simple weekend walks in the countryside would leave me with complete and utter muscle fatigue, unable to even turn myself over in bed that night and with shooting pains down my thighs keeping me awake. After blood tests and scans for arthritis, etc. my GP told me there was nothing wrong. Er, I begged to differ! So I took myself off to see a private physio who, within 5 minutes, had pinpointed that I have hip hyper-mobility, that the excruciating pain was down to everything being out of alignment and the lack of strength in my legs was down to sheer muscle exhaustion as the wrong muscles were being used. Having always leaned towards the holistic/alternative approach in life I took matters into my own hands. I started daily yoga practice, which helps massively with keeping everything aligned as well as building core strength, which is central to 'glueing' me together. But more importantly, I kept on walking. Further and further, constantly pushing myself to get stronger and fitter. Despite my physio's advice to stay away from uneven ground, within a year I completed the London Moonwalk, a trek to Everest Basecamp and picked my way over crevasses to summit Gran Paradiso. I now live a largely pain-free life, fitter and stronger than ever and spend every weekend out in the mountains... use it or lose it as the saying goes. If I stop moving the pain slowly but surely comes back. Personally I would rather have to keep moving than live in pain. Daily yoga, lunchtime walks and a whole food diet - not only does this address my physical needs, but is also extremely good for my mental health, which in our pandemic times is a priority. I also have a very long held belief that nutrition can support the body in both a preventative and management capacity when it comes to chronic disease, something the NHS and GPs are now embracing. As a qualified Health Coach I am able to work with you on your journey to better health, working alongside your GP if required.

For 20 years now I’ve refused to use any toiletries or make up that wasn’t natural, or at the very least approved by the...
01/12/2025

For 20 years now I’ve refused to use any toiletries or make up that wasn’t natural, or at the very least approved by the EWG Skin Deep database. Would only drink filtered water, eat organic. Refused to use fluoride toothpaste (and I haven’t needed any fillings!). Would only use stainless steel pans to cook in and the only ‘chemicals’ I use for cleaning are bleach and white vinegar. 20 years ago most people I knew thought I was on another ‘fad’ or maybe just a bit bonkers. Sadly, here we now are with Panorama exposing that actually, our bodies do contain the bad chemicals in our environment. Worse, these cancer causing chemicals also can’t be removed.

The chemicals would "most likely" impact my health, but there are ways to bring levels down, I was told.

Absolutely this ❤️
01/12/2025

Absolutely this ❤️

The real luxuries..

25/11/2025

HOW YOUR TRIGGERS REVEAL YOUR INNER WOUNDS
(A Buddhist perspective on healing and awareness)

Every reaction you have… every moment you feel overwhelmed, anxious, angry, or hurt… is not just a mood. It’s a message.
In Buddhism, we learn that nothing arises without a cause. Your triggers are not flaws — they are teachers pointing you toward the parts of yourself that still need compassion, understanding, and healing.

✨ If you get defensive when corrected
It often comes from past criticism that made you feel “not enough.”
Buddhism teaches Right View — to see clearly without ego. Healing begins when you learn to listen without taking every word as an attack on your worth.

✨ If you panic when people pull away
This rise of fear is the echo of old abandonment wounds.
The Buddha taught that attachment brings suffering. Healing doesn’t mean you stop caring — it means you stop believing that someone leaving means you are unlovable.

✨ If you hate being ignored
This comes from childhood neglect or feeling unseen.
In Buddhism, the practice of metta (loving-kindness) helps you give yourself the attention, respect, and love you never received.

✨ If you overreact to small mistakes
This is perfectionism rooted in shame.
The Dharma reminds us: Everything is impermanent. Mistakes are just passing clouds — not your identity. Be gentle with yourself.

✨ If you feel anxious when others are upset
You may have grown up walking on eggshells.
Buddhism teaches calm abiding — the ability to stay centered even when the environment is turbulent. Their emotions are theirs. Your peace belongs to you.

✨ If you fear saying “no”
This comes from people-pleasing and rejection trauma.
Boundaries are an act of compassion — both for yourself and others. Even the Buddha said “Protect your own mind first.”

✨ If you get jealous easily
These feelings arise from low self-worth and comparison wounds.
The Buddha taught that comparing yourself steals your joy. When you understand your own unique path, jealousy dissolves into gratitude.

✨ If you shut down in conflict
This often comes from unsafe environments where speaking up led to pain.
Healing requires relearning safety. Communication infused with mindfulness becomes a path to freedom, not fear.

✨ If you crave constant reassurance
This grows from insecurity and old betrayals.
In Buddhism, true security comes from within — through self-trust, inner stillness, and knowing your own heart.

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Your triggers are not your enemies.
They are your guides.
They show you where your heart is still asking for healing.

Every time you pause, observe, and soften rather than react, you walk the Buddha’s path — a path of awareness, compassion, and liberation from old suffering.

Heal gently.
Grow patiently.
And remember: The mind can be your greatest prison or your greatest freedom — depending on how you train it.

I find it baffling that we are only just starting to realise this.  Or should I say, raise awareness about it.  Eating s...
20/11/2025

I find it baffling that we are only just starting to realise this. Or should I say, raise awareness about it. Eating something you cannot even begin to pronounce because it’s not real food and is manufactured was never going to do any good other than boost the bottom line of the corporations making billions producing junk that is slowly but surely killing us, not to mention the crippling impact in turn on the NHS, which is beyond broken.

The world’s largest scientific review warns that consumption of UPFs poses a seismic threat to global health and wellbeing

13/11/2025

How is it already a couple of months since I was enjoying gallopi gallopi on a Portuguese beach with the very enthusiastic Big Bolero. 17hh of pure fun that boy! Only 6 months until I’m back in Portugal!

One way to reduce cortisol and therefore menopause weight gain… prioritise sleep and yoga!
31/10/2025

One way to reduce cortisol and therefore menopause weight gain… prioritise sleep and yoga!

Resetting cortisol can unlock powerful fat loss, but as gynecologist Dr. Miranda Harris warns, the margin for error is thin. Now she reveals how to leverage cortisol correctly and avoid the hidden traps. See how to avoid traps.

29/10/2025

Resetting cortisol can unlock powerful fat loss, but as gynecologist Dr. Miranda Harris warns, the margin for error is thin. Now she reveals how to leverage cortisol correctly and avoid the hidden traps. See how to avoid traps.

27/10/2025

Research shows that around 66% of menopausal women are struggling with weight gain. If you're one of them, you're not alone.“You've probably been told to count calories, push through intense workouts, start a super restrictive diet, or even try hormone replacement therapy (HRT) to shed those extra...

27/10/2025

It took me a very long time to come to the realisation that I prefer life on my own. You’d think this realisation would have hit me sooner given I always felt significantly happier being single, living on my own, and following the beat of my own drum through life ‘living free’ but hey ho, for those of us brought up in the 70s/80s we were mostly spoon fed fairytale nonsense of Prince Charming coming along and whisking us off our feet on his handsome stallion (or was it Prince Charming who was supposed to be the stallion 🤔, either way I bought my own 😆). If you didn’t want to get married and have children you were deemed a little odd. That’s ok, I’ve never been one for conforming anyway 🤷‍♀️. However, roll forwards a few decades (who’s counting? I’m trying not to 😆) and it seems not only is being ‘consciously single’ considered the new norm, but there’s also research supporting how much happier it makes us. Now I get not everyone loves a single life, but for someone like me who, several times now has sold up everything and moved to the other end of the country on my own, not knowing anyone, creating a whole new life for myself purely because I’ve decided I want to give a new life a try, who regularly flirts with the idea of spending retirement living in different countries for a few months at a time, being in a relationship can leave me feeling with my wings somewhat clipped and feeling like my hedonistic dreams have been hit by a thunderstorm. I may not do these things, but I can if I choose to and there’s no need for negotiation! A very selfish existence maybe. Lonely? Absolutely not, I’m having the time of my life! Live life on your terms!

I have definitely noticed I can’t handle alcohol, and most definitely not the after effects of even just a couple of gla...
01/10/2025

I have definitely noticed I can’t handle alcohol, and most definitely not the after effects of even just a couple of glasses of w**e these days. In fact I now rarely drink. Do I miss it? No, not at all to be honest. But one thing I have noticed, being of a ‘certain age’, whilst my friends who have continued their daily w**e habit have suffered immensely with menopause symptoms, I’ve amazingly had none. Literally none. Unless I have a drink!

Aging changes our bodies in many different ways, including how we process alcohol. Learn more.

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