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03/06/2026

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So true, so unfair and often so necessary..

I share this because it’s a relief to me that the concerns I have are mirrored by current professional assessment of the...
03/06/2026

I share this because it’s a relief to me that the concerns I have are mirrored by current professional assessment of the force.

I absolutely need resolution in regards to my personal situation, that will only happen through senior leadership oversight.

All victims deserve safety, investigation and a force who take accountability for errors in judgment and practice.

I also just commented on this post and now when I check back it’s not there for me and the comments have been limited.

Who knows what’s going on at this point..

I just want my complaints answered from 2021, 2024 and 2025..

Not too much to ask.

LATEST | Chief Constable outlines plans to drive further improvement following latest inspection

We have welcomed the latest HMICFRS PEEL report following an inspection of the Force earlier in January this year.

The report recognises the clear progress we have made in call handling, deterring crime and antisocial behaviour, our prevention work, the management of s*x and dangerous offenders and financial management.

While the Inspectorate recognises that the Force is moving firmly away from the period in which it was in ‘enhanced monitoring ‘, the report identifies two areas of concern: investigating crime and safeguarding vulnerable people, specifically the inconsistent quality in domestic abuse risk assessments (a report completed by officers after attending a domestic abuse incident).

It also identifies that we still need to improve how effectively we record crime and monitor preventative orders.

Comprehensive plans to improve these areas of concern have been submitted and we are working at pace to deliver recommendations from the report over the summer.

Inspectors will return later this year to reinspect the areas of concern and review progress.

Chief Constable James Vaughan said: “Keeping people safe from harm and providing the best quality service to the public remain at the heart of everything we do.

“HMICFRS play an important role in holding police forces to account and provide independent scrutiny on behalf of the public. I welcome the findings from the latest report.

“Whilst we have delivered sustained improvements since 2022 and the Force has now been fully removed from enhanced monitoring, there remains more to do to improve outcomes for victims and ensure consistent safeguarding standards.

“Although public trust and confidence place us in the top ten nationally due to our firm commitment to visible neighbourhood policing, we must go further and do better.”

“I have agreed with the Commissioner to stay in post for as long as she requires the stability provided by my leadership and I am confident that, with the dedication of our people, we will continue to improve our service.”

Read more here: https://news.devon-cornwall.police.uk/news-article/60a40b8a-d75e-f111-9d96-6045bdd24049

03/06/2026

Got blocked on TikTok.. let’s see if Meta want to silence me too..

03/06/2026
02/06/2026

Join us for our free parent carer workshop about SEND and school!

This workshop has lots of practical advice and information about the SEND system and how support is planned and given in nursery, school and college. Our friendly and expert team answer your questions and explain how you can support your child or young person.

Find out more and book your place here: https://buytickets.at/diasdevoninformationadviceandsupport/2206355

02/06/2026

I often wonder how many professionals truly understand the genetic links that can exist within neurodivergent families.

It’s a serious question because the consequences for families can be significant.

When one child receives a diagnosis of autism, ADHD or another neurodivergent profile, identifying and supporting siblings should, in theory, become easier.

Yet many families report the opposite.

Parents are told siblings are “copying.”
Difficulties are attributed to parenting.
Or concerns are dismissed because the child presents differently from their diagnosed brother or sister.

In some cases, parents can even find themselves viewed with suspicion for raising concerns about multiple children.

The outcome often depends on whether a family is fortunate enough to encounter professionals who understand neurodivergence, recognise the possibility of genetic links, and are willing to explore the needs of siblings objectively.

Which got me thinking...

What if we had a different pathway?

Imagine that when one child receives a diagnosis, and concerns are later raised about a sibling, a family could be offered a specialist support pathway designed specifically for neurodivergent families.

A “multiplex family plan.”

Rather than treating each child in isolation, professionals could work with the family as a whole.

Support could be coordinated earlier.
Patterns could be recognised sooner.
Relationships with professionals could become more collaborative.

And families could avoid spending years repeating the same explanations and fighting the same battles.

It may even save money by reducing duplication, delays and crisis intervention.

But more importantly...

It could prevent family breakdowns.

So I’m interested in your thoughts.

Do you have a multiplex family?

Have professionals been able to look at the needs of siblings objectively?

And would a specialist “multiplex family” pathway have made a difference to your family’s journey?

Watch Legends on Netflix.. It’s fu***ng great. I’ve had such a good day working with schools and services to improve the...
02/06/2026

Watch Legends on Netflix..

It’s fu***ng great.

I’ve had such a good day working with schools and services to improve the lives of AMAZING neurodivergent kids..

If you need help drop me an email: [email protected]

I offer EHCP services:

❤️Virtual admin- All EHCPs process
❤️Meeting support
❤️Mediation/Appeal management
❤️Complaints/Judicial review

As well as, virtual and in person throughout Devon:

❤️Respite and Enabling
❤️Support to navigate school environments and attendance
❤️School/ LA negotiation
❤️ND Parenting-support
❤️ND life-support
❤️Domestic abuse/stalking support
❤️Family court support

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