Menopause Wellbeing Stamford

11/09/2026

10/09/2026

There’s something about the end of summer that always makes me stop for a moment.

The evenings are getting darker. The mornings have that slightly cooler feel. The shops are already filling up with things we apparently already need for Halloween and Christmas seems to be creeping towards us at an alarming speed.

And, whether we like it or not, there’s a sense of change.

For some women, perimenopause and menopause can feel a little like that too.

You can’t always pinpoint exactly when things started to change. Perhaps you gradually began sleeping less well. Maybe your periods became unpredictable. Your patience became shorter. You started waking at 3am and wondering why your brain had suddenly decided that was an excellent time to think about absolutely everything.

Or perhaps it was more obvious.

Hot flushes. Anxiety. Joint aches. Brain fog. Exhaustion.

Whatever your experience, menopause can make you much more aware of time passing and of your body changing in ways you weren't necessarily expecting.

And that can be uncomfortable.

There is a lot of positive conversation around menopause now, encouraging women to see it as a fresh start, embrace change and think about what they want from the next stage of life.

And that can be a very good thing.

For some women, menopause really does become a time to reassess things, try something new or make changes that have perhaps been put off for years.

But I also think it's worth remembering that you don't have to turn your life upside down.

Sometimes, particularly when you're tired and not feeling quite yourself, you simply need to work out what helps.

Perhaps that's getting outside for a walk. Going to bed a little earlier. Eating properly rather than grabbing whatever is quickest. Moving your body in a way that feels good. Saying no to something you really don't want to do.

Small things can matter.

As summer comes to an end, perhaps this is a good time to take stock. Not in a dramatic, life-changing way. Just a quiet moment to think about how you're feeling.

What's working for you at the moment?

What's making life harder?

And is there one small change that might make the next few weeks a little easier?

You don't need a complete overhaul. You don't need a new wardrobe or a complicated morning routine involving cold showers and green juice.

Sometimes a little more attention to what your body and mind need is a perfectly good place to start.

Summer is ending. Another season is beginning.

And perhaps that's enough reason to pause, take a breath and see where you are. 💜

08/09/2026

That wired, restless, can’t-switch-off feeling?

It’s incredibly common during perimenopause and menopause - even if anxiety or overwhelm has never been an issue before.

If things feel a bit too much lately, here are 5 gentle ways to support yourself:

✨ 1. Start your day more slowly
Even 10 minutes without rushing - no phone, just a calm start - can change the tone of your whole day.

✨ 2. Focus on your breathing
Slow, steady breathing (especially longer exhales) helps calm your nervous system quickly.

✨ 3. Reduce information overload
Constant input (news, social media, noise) can heighten overwhelm without you realising.

✨ 4. Write things down
Getting thoughts out of your head and onto paper can reduce that “spinning” feeling.

✨ 5. Ground yourself in the present
Step outside, notice your surroundings, feel your feet on the floor - simple, but very effective.

Anxiety during this stage of life isn’t a weakness - it’s often your nervous system asking for more support, not more pressure 🌿

22/08/2026

💙 Why can anxiety increase during menopause?

Many women notice changes in how they feel during perimenopause and menopause. You might find yourself feeling more anxious than usual, worrying about things that never used to bother you or feeling on edge for no obvious reason.

These feelings can be unsettling, particularly if you've never experienced anxiety before.

Changes in hormone levels can influence the body's stress response. Poor sleep, hot flushes and the pressures of everyday life can also contribute to feelings of anxiety.

Understanding what's happening won't make anxiety disappear overnight, but it can help you make sense of these changes and identify practical strategies to manage anxiety and support your overall wellbeing.

That's exactly why I wrote my Navigate Anxiety in Menopause bite-size guide.

It explains why anxiety can become more common during menopause, explores practical lifestyle strategies that may help support emotional wellbeing and includes a worksheet to help you build your own personalised plan.

To celebrate the launch of my new Etsy shop, I'm offering 50% off all my digital menopause guides until 31st August to you, my Facebook followers, and your friends.

That means each guide is just £1.90 (usually £3.80).

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Each guide has been written and fact-checked by me and is designed to be informative, practical and easy to dip into whenever you need it.

I've deliberately prioritised content over decoration, so apart from the cover there are no filler graphics or images – just clear, straightforward information that I hope you'll find genuinely useful.

Every guide follows the same simple format:

📖 Cover page
📚 A full page explaining the topic – helping you understand what's happening and why.
💡 Three full pages of practical information, ideas and evidence-based guidance to help you navigate that particular aspect of perimenopause or menopause.
📝 A worksheet or tracker page where you can reflect on your own symptoms, habits or experiences.

You can read them on your phone, tablet or computer, print the whole guide, or just the worksheet/tracker page. You can also complete the worksheet digitally using a note-taking app.

21/08/2026

The strategic nap 😴

If you're in perimenopause or menopause and your nights aren't what they used to be, you may know that particular feeling.

You get to the afternoon and suddenly your brain seems to have gone on strike.

You're tired, you're struggling to concentrate and the simplest task feels like it's requiring far more effort than it should.

A nap might be exactly what your brain needs.

And I'm not talking about disappearing under the duvet for two hours at 2pm and then wondering why you're wide awake at midnight.

I'm talking about a strategic nap.

Research into daytime napping suggests that a short nap can improve alertness, attention and aspects of cognitive performance. It can also help with memory consolidation – giving your brain a chance to process and store what you've taken in during the day.

That could be particularly welcome when you're dealing with the brain fog that can accompany perimenopause and menopause.

The trick, though, is getting the timing and length right.

For most people, 15–20 minutes is the sweet spot. It's long enough to give you a mental reset without dropping too deeply into sleep, which means you're less likely to wake feeling groggy.

And if you have the luxury of more time, there's another option: around 90 minutes, which gives you the opportunity to complete a full sleep cycle.

But I wouldn't suggest making a habit of long daytime sleeps if they're interfering with your night-time sleep. The whole point of the strategic nap is to support your sleep and energy rather than make the night even more difficult.

And when should you do it?

For most people, early to mid-afternoon is the best time, when there's a natural dip in alertness. A nap much later in the afternoon is more likely to interfere with your sleep that night.

Of course, I realise that "just have a 20-minute nap" isn't exactly practical advice when you're at work, looking after children, caring for someone else or simply have a list of things to do as long as your arm.

And that's where weekends might come in.

If your week has left you exhausted, allowing yourself 20 minutes to lie down on a Saturday or Sunday afternoon isn't laziness. It's rest.

One thing I would say, though: don't use naps to paper over persistent sleep problems.

If you're regularly exhausted during the day because you're barely sleeping at night, that's something worth addressing rather than simply trying to catch up with naps.

But for the occasional afternoon slump?

A short, well-timed nap might be just what you need.

I'm very happy to put "strategic nap" on the list of legitimate menopause wellbeing strategies. 😴💜

💬Are you a good napper, or does a daytime snooze leave you feeling worse?

19/08/2026

A menopause appointment is a little different from seeing your GP about a single, specific symptom.

You may be experiencing changes in your sleep, mood, periods, concentration, anxiety, energy or something physical – sometimes several of them at once.

And trying to explain all of that in a short appointment can be challenging.

So a little preparation can make a big difference.

Before you go, spend a few minutes thinking about what you actually want from the appointment.

Are you trying to understand whether your symptoms could be related to perimenopause? Do you want to discuss treatment options? Are you concerned about a particular symptom? Or do you simply want someone to listen and help you work out what to do next?

Write it down.

And don't just make a list of symptoms. Think about how they are affecting your life.

"I can't concentrate at work."

"I'm waking several times a night and I'm exhausted."

"I'm finding my anxiety much harder to manage."

"These symptoms are affecting my relationship."

That gives your GP a much clearer picture than simply saying you're experiencing brain fog, anxiety or poor sleep.

It's also worth taking a note of any medication you're taking, your relevant medical history and, if you know it, what's been happening with your periods.

If you have time, looking at the relevant NHS and NICE information beforehand can help you understand the options and think about what you'd like to ask.

And don't be afraid to ask questions during the appointment.

"What else could be causing these symptoms?"

"What are my options?"

"What would you recommend and why?"

"What happens if this doesn't help?"

If you don't understand something, ask your GP to explain it.

And if you feel your concerns are being dismissed, you can say so calmly:

"I don't feel we're getting to the bottom of how much this is affecting my everyday life. Can we talk about what we can do next?"

Remember, one appointment doesn't have to solve everything.

You may need to go back, try something and review how you're getting on, or see another GP. Women's healthcare is sometimes a process rather than a single conversation.

Most importantly, don't convince yourself that you're being a nuisance by asking for help.

You know what has changed in your body and your life.

You deserve to be part of the conversation about what happens next. 💜