Healing, Havening & Counselling with Colleen

Healing, Havening & Counselling with Colleen I am a caring, empathic, thoughtful human, with vast experience of working with adults, children and families. "Feel supported, energized, and ready for change!

I help clients to transform their lives with Counselling, Havening & Access Bars in a peaceful, healing space. I have always worked in a caring capacity with children and adults, helping them to help themselves. Two years ago I trained in a revoluntutionary new modality called Havening Techniques, it is truly amazing at shifting stress, triggers, traumas and moving you into a state of healing and

growth. I'm your empathic Counsellor and Havening Practitioner, committed to removing the impact of trauma, guiding you to a revitalised self."

19/06/2026

Happy Friday I know this isn’t perfect but I thought it better to get it out rather than fuss and delay the message
So our space is for a child who has a sibling with special needs or challenging behaviour.
It’s going to be monthly on the 2nd Monday of the month starting at 6pm

Anyone interested needs to contact me directly, my contact details are in the bio.
I’m really look forward to this starting because I know it’s really needed.

It will be a small group to support new friendships, learn strategies, have a voice and some creativity thrown in for those who enjoy that experience. ❤️

Following on the series of red flags in relationships, highlighting practices you need to question, be concerned about a...
19/06/2026

Following on the series of red flags in relationships, highlighting practices you need to question, be concerned about and above all know you are not to blame but it’s your job to consider whether your relationship and consider seeking help to walk away.

🚩 Scorekeeping

“I did this for you, so you owe me.”

When kindness becomes transactional, relationships can shift into a subtle power struggle.
Scorekeeping often reflects underlying resentment or unmet emotional needs.

Healthy relationships focus on cooperation and mutual care rather than keeping track of who has done more.

Counselling can help uncover the deeper dynamics behind recurring conflict patterns and support healthier communication.
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18/06/2026

Grief can be confusing up and down like waves, waves of sadness, regret, guilt, anger, frustration, smiles, laughter despair, loneliness and so much more! Not right not wrong just so.
So let’s remember we are human and suffering isn’t linear, so check-in with people, drop by, take cake or lunch, offer to help sort whatever needs doing or help with the mountain of paperwork none of which feels easy, but above all chat, invite them out and mention their beloved x

Following on from my post about stress and the impact on physical health.It is it so important to sit with our emotions ...
18/06/2026

Following on from my post about stress and the impact on physical health.
It is it so important to sit with our emotions instead of pushing them away

Many of us were never taught how to be with difficult feelings. We distract ourselves, stay busy, tell ourselves to “get over it,” or try to think our way out of what we’re feeling.

But emotions don’t simply disappear because we ignore them.

When feelings such as sadness, anger, fear, grief, or overwhelm aren’t acknowledged, our bodies often continue to carry the stress associated with them. Over time, this can show up as tension, headaches, fatigue, poor sleep, digestive issues, anxiety, or a general sense of feeling disconnected from ourselves.

Taking a few moments to pause, breathe, notice what we’re feeling, name the feeling and allow the emotion to be there without judgment can be incredibly healing. Emotions are like messengers they have something to tell us. So ask your body what it needs.
When we listen, rather than resist, they often begin to move through us.

Letting go doesn’t mean suppressing or pretending we’re okay. It means acknowledging what is present, giving it space, learning from it, and allowing it to pass rather than holding onto it.

Our emotional wellbeing and physical wellbeing are deeply connected. The more we practice awareness and self-compassion, the more we support both our mind and body.
Feel it, Acknowledge it, Allow it, Release it, then ask your body what it needs now.

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When men are truly heard, something shifts so I encourage you to make time to talk.Check-in with them, make the call, pu...
17/06/2026

When men are truly heard, something shifts so I encourage you to make time to talk.
Check-in with them, make the call, put some space a side, tell them you are worried about them, or you noticed ………. And wondered if they would like to talk and if not to you could you help them by giving them some details.

NHS Mental Health Support
Self-refer for talking therapies (where available)
Mental health information, self-help tools, and urgent support
Website: NHS Mental Health Services

Psychology Today UK
Directory of counsellors, psychotherapists, psychologists, and support groups across the UK
Search by location, issue, therapy type, and online/in-person options
Website: Psychology Today UK Therapist Directory

Counselling Directory
UK-wide directory of verified counsellors and psychotherapists
Includes articles, mental health information, and therapist search tools
Website: Counselling Directory

Men’s Health Forum
Official Men’s Health Week organiser in the UK
Campaign resources, health information, and awareness materials
Website: Men’s Health Forum

ANDYSMANCLUB
Free peer-to-peer support groups for men aged 18+
Website: ANDYSMANCLUB

CALM (Campaign Against Living Miserably)
Support for men experiencing low mood, crisis, or suicidal thoughts
Website: CALM

Samaritans
24-hour emotional support
Call 116 123
Website: Samaritans

16/06/2026

I’ve noticed a few people knocking each other and I don’t like it much, so began wondering why we don’t make more effort to be kinder, supportive, complimentary and grateful.
Is this also going on in the man’s world?
let me know your thoughts.
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Men’s  health needs more than awareness it needs time, space, and genuine listening.As a counsellor and practitioner in ...
16/06/2026

Men’s health needs more than awareness it needs time, space, and genuine listening.

As a counsellor and practitioner in Havening Techniques and Access Bars, I often meet men who are carrying far more than they show. Not because they don’t feel deeply, but because they haven’t always had the permission, safety, or space to express it.

Men’s Health Week is a reminder that awareness alone isn’t enough. What’s needed is presence.

We need to get better at truly listening not to fix, not to judge, but simply to be with someone in what they’re sharing. To slow down. To make space. To allow silence when it’s needed.
Because when men are genuinely heard, something shifts.

Pressures ease, clarity returns, and connection becomes possible again.

Listening isn’t passive. It’s one of the most powerful forms of support we have.
If we want men to speak up, we have to be willing to slow down and truly hear them when they do.

So what can we all do better to unite the men in our lives to just talk and be heard?

15/06/2026

Stress Isn’t Just in Your Head

We often think of stress as something that affects our thoughts, mood, or emotions. But the truth is, stress has a way of showing up throughout the body too.

Many men are used to pushing through challenges, carrying responsibilities, and getting on with things. While resilience is a strength, constantly operating under pressure can take a toll on physical health.

Stress can contribute to:

Tension headaches and migraines
Tight shoulders, neck pain, and muscle aches
Digestive issues and changes in appetite
Poor sleep or waking up feeling exhausted
Increased blood pressure
Lower immunity, making you more susceptible to illness
Fatigue and low energy levels
And more ……

The body doesn’t always distinguish between a genuine emergency and the ongoing pressures of work, finances, relationships, or daily life. When stress becomes chronic, the nervous system can remain on high alert, leaving the body with little opportunity to rest, recover, and repair.

One of the challenges is that stress can become so familiar that it starts to feel normal. Many people only realise how much stress they’ve been carrying when the physical symptoms begin to ease.

This Men’s Health Week is a good reminder that looking after your health isn’t only about exercise and nutrition. It’s also about creating space to check in with yourself, talk about what’s going on, and find ways to reduce the pressure you’re carrying.
But we all have a part to pay, so if you see someone is having a hard time or think they look stressed, ask them if they’re okay, if they need a chat or support.

Small changes can make a big difference, whether that’s taking time to rest, speaking with someone you trust, seeking professional support, or exploring approaches that help you feel calmer and more present.

Your mind and body are connected. When you support one, you support the other.

14/06/2026

Next week is Men’s Health Week, running from 15th to 21st June.

Together we can raise awareness of men’s health and encourage the men in our lives to get support for any health worries they might have. Let’s start a conversation with the men around us. They could be our partners, sons, relatives, work colleagues or friends.

Around 30% of men don’t know where to turn for advice or support, but you could help change that by starting the conversation today.

Sometimes just asking “How are you really doing?” can make a big difference.

A listening ear, a kind word or a simple check-in could make all the difference.

www.colleensmith.org

14/06/2026

Do you need to calm your mind and body?
I invite you to stand still, feet pushed into the ground, place one hand on your heart and as you breathe in think of something you love. When you release your breath make it longer and slower and imagine you are releasing the stress, chaos, pain, crap, anxiety or sadness.

Come back to this exercise when ever you need it. ❤️😍

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