09/08/2026
“Tough managers taught me more than easy ones ever did.”
In the Army, you don’t get to choose your Commanding Officer (CO).You learn to read them, adapt, and still deliver in keeping with the stated mission.
This was the key learning I applied on transitioning into the corporate and with all humility at my behest I had a very successful and rewarding corporate professional trajectory. A few things I picked up along the way working with senior leadership across the globe:-
- Figure out what they’re accountable for. Most “difficult” managers are just under pressure you can’t see.
- Keep them in the loop always … regular communication is the key which slowly dissolves the barriers and removes friction
- Tough bosses feed on solutions and that’s what builds trust fast when you do.
- Cliche as it may sound; Don’t shoot the messenger”…. Focus on the message.
You won’t get to pick your manager. But how you show up under a tough one — that’s often what shapes your reputation the most and makes you relevant in the team.
Have you / are you dealing with a tough manager? I would be curious to know how you have / are dealing with it.