22/08/2026
To the Person Waiting for Heart Surgery
Dear friend,
I don’t know your name.
I don’t know how long you have been waiting, how many times you have looked at the calendar, or how many nights you have gone to bed wondering what your life will look like after the operation.
But I want you to know something.
You are not alone.
I know waiting for heart surgery can feel frightening. There are moments when your mind probably runs ahead of you, imagining the operating room, the machines, the doctors, the anaesthesia, the recovery.
You may have questions you are afraid to ask.
You may feel strong in the morning and frightened at night.
You may even wonder, “What if something goes wrong?”
Those thoughts do not make you weak.
They make you human.
One day, you will be taken into that operating room.
There will be people around you whom you may have never met before. Each person will have a different responsibility, but they will all have the same goal:
To get you safely through.
You may not see everyone who is working for you.
You may never know the names of some of them.
But while you are asleep, there will be people watching your heart, your blood pressure, your oxygen levels, your blood flow, and so many other things, minute after minute.
And when your heart needs help, there will be someone there to help it.
So, for now, take it one day at a time.
Ask your questions.
Tell your loved ones that you love them.
Allow yourself to be afraid, but don't let fear convince you that you are already defeated.
Your diagnosis is part of your story.
It is not the whole story.
There is a day beyond the operation.
There is a morning when you will wake up and realize that you made it through.
There may be difficult days during recovery. There may be pain, tiredness, frustration, and moments when progress feels painfully slow.
But keep going.
Because somewhere ahead of you is a day when you will walk a little farther.
A day when you will take a deeper breath.
A day when you will laugh without thinking about your heart.
A day when you will look back and say,
"I was so scared… but I made it."
So, to the person waiting for heart surgery:
Breathe.
Hold on.
Trust your team.
Lean on the people who love you.
And remember that being afraid does not mean you are not brave.
Sometimes, courage is simply showing up, even when you are terrified.
Your heart has carried you this far.
Now let others help carry you the rest of the way.
With hope,
Someone who will be rooting for you from the other side of the operating room.