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10/08/2026

HIS MONEY, OUR MONEY?

In many Nigerian homes, there is an unspoken expectation that a man should give his woman money even when she earns her own money, sometimes even when she earns more than he does.

But where does this expectation come from? Culture? Tradition? Society? Or the way we have been taught to define love and a man’s role in a relationship?

And when does “my man should take care of me” cross the line into financial dependence, entitlement or even transactional relationships?

We’re also seeing a worrying message being sold to young women: that dating a wealthy man is the ultimate goal, while money can be used to buy affection, access and even relationships.

So, where do we draw the line between a man providing for his woman and money becoming the foundation of the relationship?

Join us for our August Moms Round Table as we unpack:

HIS MONEY, OUR MONEY — Who pays? Who provides? And what does money mean in a Nigerian relationship?

What do you think? Is expecting a man to provide cultural, societal or simply personal? Comment below

Women like Cameron Diaz remind us that there is no one timeline for motherhood.Whether you become a mum in your 20s, 30s...
05/08/2026

Women like Cameron Diaz remind us that there is no one timeline for motherhood.

Whether you become a mum in your 20s, 30s, 40s or beyond, your journey is valid. Seeing women, especially those in the public eye, embrace motherhood later in life helps challenge the myths and stigma around age and fertility.

Let's celebrate the women who remind us that motherhood doesn't have an expiry date.

New monthNew blessingNew memories to make. Every sunrise is a gentle reminder that you are growing alongside your childr...
03/08/2026

New month
New blessing
New memories to make.

Every sunrise is a gentle reminder that you are growing alongside your children. Here’s to a month of blooming into everything you’re meant to be.

Happy New Month, family!

27/07/2026

Be more compassionate. ❤️

You never know what a career woman is going through while trying to conceive. Instead of making assumptions or offering unsolicited advice, choose empathy.

Sometimes, support looks like listening without judgment, inviting her out for a coffee, checking in, or simply sharing a laugh that reminds her she's loved.

What other ways can we better support women on this journey? Share your thoughts in the comments.

21/07/2026

Before asking,

**"When are you getting married?"**
or
**"When are you having a baby?"**

remember, you don't know someone's story.

She may be navigating infertility, pregnancy loss, health challenges, financial struggles, or simply waiting for the right time. The emotional weight of these journeys is often invisible.

It's time to replace judgement with compassion.

Join us this July for **Moms Round Table**.

Let's challenge the stigma and learn how we can better support women navigating motherhood after 35.

🎙Live on TikTok

Register here:https://bit.ly/WhySocietyTaboo

Why Is Older Motherhood Still a Taboo?Around the world, more women are choosing motherhood later in life, and many are c...
14/07/2026

Why Is Older Motherhood Still a Taboo?

Around the world, more women are choosing motherhood later in life, and many are celebrated for it. But in Nigeria, women who become mothers after 35 are still judged, stigmatised, and often left without the medical and emotional support they need.

Yet, with rising living costs, changing life priorities, infertility, and delayed marriage, older motherhood is becoming more common than ever.

So why is the conversation still filled with shame instead of support?

We're committed to ensuring women have the knowledge, support, and community they need to make informed choices because no woman should have to walk this journey alone.

Join us this July as we unpack the myths, challenge the stigma, and explore how we can create a more informed and compassionate society for women navigating motherhood after 35.

Venue: TikTok ( )
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Date: 26th July
Time: 7pm

Come share your voice. Listen, learn, and help change the narrative. Like or share with someone who needs to see this!

She smiles through the meeting. Hits every deadline. Celebrates another promotion.What many people don't see are the fer...
13/07/2026

She smiles through the meeting. Hits every deadline. Celebrates another promotion.

What many people don't see are the fertility appointments, the quiet tears, or the emotional weight she carries every time someone asks, "So, when are you having children?"

Not every career woman is choosing to delay motherhood. Some are simply navigating a journey that's harder than anyone knows.

A little more kindness. A little less assumption. A little more support. It can make all the difference.

If no one has told you lately:
🤍 You are enough.
🤍 You are not late.
🤍 And you don't have to walk this journey alone.

Drop a ❤️ if this message was for you, or share it to remind someone they're not alone.

In many places, delaying motherhood is a career or lifestyle choice. But in Nigeria, advanced maternal age, also known a...
08/07/2026

In many places, delaying motherhood is a career or lifestyle choice.

But in Nigeria, advanced maternal age, also known as older motherhood, is often an involuntary reality shaped by economic hardship.

We need to change the narrative. These women don't need judgment; they need targeted healthcare, systemic support, and safe paths to motherhood.

Let's talk about it.



Let's face it, getting older is like a never-ending battle against our hormones and energy levels... and then we decide ...
07/07/2026

Let's face it, getting older is like a never-ending battle against our hormones and energy levels... and then we decide to become moms at 40+, and it's like, 'Hey, let's add some extra chaos to the mi

But seriously, staying fit is crucial for our health and our tiny humans, so here are three easy peasy steps to get you started on your fitness journey!

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