Crystal Relaxation Experience

10/10/2026

This amazing lady is very creative 👌

05/10/2026

01/10/2026

When something feels this tangled, it can be hard to know where to begin.

You do not have to untangle the whole relationship at once. Sometimes you begin with one strand—one real-life situation that keeps repeating.

Perhaps it is the conversation where you keep explaining because you do not feel heard, agree just to keep the peace or take over because asking again feels too hard.

Across three personalised Emotion & Belief Sessions, we can work with the emotions and beliefs behind that response, helping it feel less automatic—even when the other person has not changed.

One real-life situation. Three personalised Emotion & Belief Sessions. Less reactivity. More choice.

Explore the three-session package https://app.acuityscheduling.com/catalog.php?owner=30195420&action=addCart&clear=1&id=1708642

Melissa 🥰

01/10/2026

See you at Empire Street Market on Sunday 4th October 10 to 1pm

28/09/2026

Hello Everyone,
Don't forget our Wellness Experience Event that is being held at the Matamata Primary School in the hall.
Saturday the 17th October and Sunday the 18th of October from 10am to 3pm
It we event full of excitement and if your are on a Wellness journey then its the opportunity to try something new.
For example you could soak your feet in a foot bath and then either have a Reflexology session with one of the girls from the Reflexology NZ or try Reiki or even a head and shoulder massage.

You can also simply talk to the other Practitioners and see where your journey could take you.

To find out more you can go onto Wellness Experience Matamata FB page and there are some videos of different stallholders.

Looking forward to seeing you there. Come along and say hi.
Wellness Experience
Transcendence77
Studio Me
Lotus Life
qiong
Go Sage Yourself NZ
Health 2000 Matamata

22/09/2026

You ask them to do the dishes. They don’t, so you take away the PlayStation. They still don’t clean their room, so the Wi-Fi goes next. Eventually they move and the job gets done.

But I wonder what they actually learnt.

Did they learn responsibility, or did they learn that they only need to move once something becomes painful enough?

That’s an interesting pattern to carry into adulthood. We stay in the job until we absolutely hate it. We ignore our body until it hurts. We stay in the relationship until something blows up. We wait until the money, stress or health situation becomes painful enough that we finally do something.

Pain becomes the motivator, while pleasure becomes something we get around to later.

Maybe the question isn’t just, “How do I get my child to do what I want?” Maybe it’s, “What am I teaching them about what gets a person moving?”

And sometimes that question leads somewhere uncomfortable, because we realise we’re doing exactly the same thing ourselves.

If this has brought up one of those “sh*t, I do that” moments, you don’t need to work out the whole pattern before doing something about it. Bring the reaction, the situation or the thing that keeps repeating and we can start there.

A one-to-one session with me is 60 minutes and $150.

https://thehealingbarn.as.me/work-with-scott

21/09/2026

Hi Everyone, I want to highly recommend Tash from Transcendence77.
I had a phenomenal reading with her today all of which we went through is so close to my heart and now it is time to follow through on things we talked about.

We are lucky enough to have Tash at the Wellness Experience Event on the 17th and 18th of October being held at the Matamata Primary School in the hall.
10am-3pm
Free entry.
Wellness Experience

16/09/2026

Conflict doesn’t always look like an argument.

Sometimes it’s the tension that rises when someone questions you. The need to keep explaining your point, the urge to pull away, or the feeling that it’s your responsibility to make everything okay again.

When one of these reactions takes over, it’s easy to judge ourselves and wonder, “Why do I keep doing that?” But the reaction itself may contain little gold nuggets of information about what is happening beneath the surface.

Perhaps something in that moment felt threatening, even if another part of you knew you were safe. Your body may have been responding through a lens shaped by an earlier experience—trying to protect you from being misunderstood, rejected, blamed, or disconnected from someone important to you.

The way through conflict isn’t always to push the reaction down or try harder to respond differently. Sometimes it begins with listening to what the reaction is protecting, while also making room for the other person’s experience without losing sight of your own.

As the emotional charge around that situation begins to change, there can be more breathing room. The situation may still happen, but it doesn’t have to create the same conflict within you.

This is often where we begin in an Emotion & Belief Session: with one real-life situation and a reaction you would like to understand and experience differently.

If there’s a familiar situation in your life that keeps bringing out the same reaction, it may be something we can explore together.

Melissa 🥰