The Spiritual Aunty

30/05/2026

Don’t seek validation from people whose opinions you don’t truly value.

One of the most freeing things you can learn is that not everyone gets a vote in your life.

If someone doesn’t support your growth, respect your journey, or understand your values, their approval isn’t something you need to chase.

Too many people spend years trying to prove their worth to those who have already decided how they see them.

Meanwhile, the people who genuinely love, respect, and appreciate them have been cheering them on all along.

Know who you are.

Trust your own judgment.

Listen to advice from those who have earned a place in your circle, not from those who simply have an opinion.

Your value is not determined by someone else’s inability to see it.

Remember: Not everyone is qualified to assess your worth, so don’t hand them the power to define it 💜

30/05/2026

Mōrena
Kia pai tō rā
Arohanui
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29/05/2026

Thank you, MUSIC 🎵 for being with me through life’s ups and downs.

MUSIC 🎶 held me together in moments people never saw.

It made me cry when I needed release, made me dance when life felt heavy and somehow always knew how to reach the parts of my soul words couldn’t touch.

Through heartbreak, healing, loneliness and joy music kept me company.

Not just an artist, but a soundtrack to so many memories and emotions.

Forever grateful for the comfort, magic and energy of MUSIC 🖤🎶

28/05/2026

Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will.

Failure teaches you.
Failure helps you grow.
Failure gives you experience, strength, and wisdom.

But doubt?
Doubt convinces you not to even try.
It talks you out of opportunities before they begin.
It makes you question your worth, your ability, and your place in this world.

Many people are not failing because they can’t do it — they’re failing because fear and self-doubt stopped them before they even started.

Believe in yourself enough to take the chance.

Even if you stumble, at least you gave yourself the opportunity to grow instead of wondering “what if” for the rest of your life.

28/05/2026

When you were younger and never got invited, never got picked first, or always felt like the extra person standing on the outside looking in… those moments stay with you longer than people realise.

As adults, it can show up in quiet ways.

Overthinking why you weren’t included.

Feeling hurt when people forget you.

Struggling to believe you truly belong.

Always preparing yourself for rejection before it even happens.

Some people aren’t “too sensitive” they’re carrying wounds from years of feeling unseen, unwanted, or not enough.

That’s why kindness, inclusion, and making people feel valued matters more than we think.

Sometimes all someone ever wanted was to feel chosen too. 💛

28/05/2026

Sometimes life brings us back to familiar situations, familiar people, or familiar feelings, not because we are going backwards, but because Spirit, life, or the universe is quietly asking us:
“Have you learnt to choose yourself yet?”

The second time around is often less about them and more about you.
Your boundaries.
Your healing.
Your self-worth.
Your ability to recognise what once broke you, manipulated you, drained you, or distracted you from your peace.

Some encores arrive so we can finally respond differently.

Not with anger.
Not with fear.

But with wisdom, clarity, and the courage to no longer abandon ourselves just to keep others comfortable.

Growth is not pretending the lesson never hurt.

Growth is recognising the pattern while it’s happening and choosing differently this time. 💜

27/05/2026

Ngā mihi nui to all the Beautiful Souls who have recently had a Reading with me.

It has truly been an honour to connect with you and the loved ones who walk beside you in spirit.

Thank you for allowing me into such personal and sacred moments of your journey.

The strength, love, healing and messages shared during these connections are something I never take for granted.

No matter where life leads you from here, may you continue to move forward with courage, clarity and trust in yourself and in the guidance surrounding you.

Wishing each of you peace, healing aroha as you continue this journey called life 💜

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27/05/2026

Life will present you with people and circumstances to reveal where you are not free.

Not to punish you, but to show you the places within yourself that still need healing, boundaries, growth or understanding.

Sometimes the lesson comes through disappointment, betrayal, loss, conflict or repeated patterns that keep showing up in different faces and situations.

What triggers you, drains you or keeps pulling you into the same cycles is often pointing toward something deeper.

Freedom is not about controlling other people or avoiding hard situations. It is about reaching a place where your peace, worth and direction are no longer controlled by them.

The lesson isn’t always in what happened to you. Sometimes it is in what it revealed within you.

27/05/2026

There comes a time when you have to stop doing for others what they wouldn’t do for you.

Not out of bitterness, anger, or because you’ve stopped caring, but because you’ve finally realised that constantly pouring into others while running yourself empty isn’t healthy.

You can love people, support people, and be there for people without sacrificing your own peace, energy, and wellbeing.

The people who truly value you won’t expect you to carry all the weight while they stand back and watch.

Sometimes choosing yourself isn’t selfish — it’s necessary.

26/05/2026

One of those days where everyone and everything just pi**es you off.

Not because you’re angry at the world, not because you hate people, sometimes your mind, body and spirit are simply tired.

Carrying stress, carrying responsibilities, carrying things you don’t always talk about.

Some days your patience is short, your energy is low and even the smallest things feel loud.

That doesn’t make you a bad person. It just means you might need a moment to reset, breathe and protect your own peace.

Tomorrow is a new day 💜