27/05/2026
Dear Queens,
Another long post but I promise this will convict your heart to reflect on your health journey too.
An Ugly truth I discovered during my fitness journey.
You can go to the gym or exercise everyday and still NOT lose any weight or see major difference if your habits in the kitchen and in life doesn't align.
Let me elaborate.
If you eat recklessly and indulge in alcohol, drugs smoke, junk food etc.... it is almost a waste of your time going to the gym.
As mentioned in my previous post, we dont go to the gym to lose weight, we go there to build muscle and get strong and fit and create a life of discipline.
Our weight loss endeavors should start in the kitchen as well as a shift in our mindset.
We should eat to nourish our body instead of eat to satisfy our hunger or cravings.
Train and eat with intention and purpose.
If you mess this up, you will find yourself in a Yoyo cycle. Meaning you will just be eating and training aimlessly because there are no specific goals to work towards.
My fitness journey started when I was in my mid 30s to date, I am in my mid 40s.
It hasn't been the most perfect journey because I had failed so many times to maintain this wellness and fitness lifestyle.
I really didnt have any health scares to put me on this path either but the simple realization that my health and my life mattered to myself, for my sons, for my family, for my friends, for my business.
I had to do better for myself so I can show up better for everything and everyone I valued in my life.
I never had role models in the wellness and fitness space.
In fact, I lost a few of my beloved family members and friends through lifestyle diseases.
Maybe this was also one of the reasons I decided to take control over my health.
Some of my family members even make fun of me with my obsession with fasting, fitness and gym.
Little do they know, I always pray that God will convict their hearts like he did mine to look after their health.
I lost my beloved aunt earlier this year so I went home to lay her to rest. Before leaving, I told my family members to take care of their health because I do not want to keep traveling home to attend funerals.
But in saying that, you cannot help anyone if they chose not to help themselves first.
Health is Wealthđ especially in this day and age.
Be DEAD serious about your health.