17/05/2026
Sach sach batao… kitni dafa tumne gusse men aisa decision liya hai jiska baad men regret hua?
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Sach bataun… hum zindagi ke 80% ghalat faislay sirf is liye kar dete hain kyun ke hum sirf “iss waqt” ke baare mein soch rahe hotay hain.
Gussa aata hai to foran jawab de dete hain.
Dil karta hai to foran paisay uda dete hain.
Koi kuch keh de to foran react kar dete hain.
Aur phir… baad mein beth ke sochte hain ke yaar yeh kya kar diya.
Main bhi pehle yahi karta tha. Phir mujhe aik simple rule samajh aaya — 10-10-10.
Ab jab bhi koi decision lena hota hai, main khud se sirf 3 sawal poochta hoon:
10 minute baad mujhe kaisa feel hoga?
10 din baad mujhe kaisa feel hoga?
10 mahine baad mujhe kaisa feel hoga?
Aur yahan game change hoti hai.
Kyunkay sach yeh hai ke 10 minute wali feeling aksar jhoot hoti hai…
Lekin 10 mahine wali feeling kabhi jhoot nahi hoti.
Ab jab bhi gussa aata hai, main rukta hoon.
Jab bhi impulsive decision lena hota hai, main future sochta hoon.
Har baar nahi jeetta… lekin ab har baar haar bhi nahi hoti.
Agar tum apni life ko seriously better banana chahte ho, to aaj se ek kaam karo:
Koi bhi emotional ya bada decision lo… pehle 10-10-10 rule apply karo.
Baaki sab baad mein.
Trust me, tumhari zindagi ke faislay change ho jayenge.
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Agar tumhein lagta hai ke tum bhi impulsive decisions lete ho, to comment men ‘CONTROL’ likho
#𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐤𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐬
