With Pedro • Love & Leadership

04/06/2021

Cultivate worship and reverence for your lover. Because that will make you the lover you want to be.
When you let him or her be your sacred teacher, love and deep intimate s*x will fill your life with freedom, energy, and pleasure.
Give yourself entirely to life before you die. There is no worse feeling than the regret of having lived ungiven.

01/06/2021

𝒮𝑒𝓍𝓊𝒶𝓁 Sovereignty is any man's secret to more energy and an expanded capacity to be present.
For many men, it's the first step into their masculine embodiment, regardless of how many years of meditation or breathwork practice they have under their belt.
This practice of preserving your men's seeds will put you face to face with your shame, your fear, and your loneliness. And it will give you back the energy of your life force, the one you came here to create with.

30/05/2021

When you look into the eyes of creation and you ask it for a dance. It will take you to meet your most luscious delight and your darkest grief.
When you don't make feeling a problem, you'll heal and you'll prosper, and you'll feel more and more.

29/05/2021

Every time you do what you came here to do you feel a sense of love and freedom.
Forget about Disney passion and commit to love. Real love requires opening more than you're comfortable and owning more of your shame and fear than what it feels good.

28/05/2021

We will support each other's heart-opening or we will stay closed. If someone's power makes you feel bad, own it and share it, that will make you empowered too. That's how we rise.

27/05/2021

16/01/2021

F up parents create f up children. But not always.

Have you ever thought about the negative impact of trauma that passes from parents to children, generation after generation?

How can we teach our children to have an open heart in situations where we always close ours?

I've heard this from some clients in the last 2 years of working with people 1:1.

My answer has been that it's impossible to be a perfect parent but it's very possible to not destroy the first decades or whole life of a child.

There are some very valuable principles that we can focus on and most important there are thoughts we can stop reacting to and acting from.

I'll share some of the foundations that I've seen working in a future post.

Do you have children?

Have you thought about this before?

07/01/2021

I thought I was alone in having scary thoughts like this, and then I realized that everyone has them in one form or another.

Everything changes when we realize that thought is pointing to a need, a want, or a desire. The mind is a thought-producing machine and many times it doesn't make sense, it doesn't create truth and it doesn't speak about what's real. Thought is illusory in its nature, but it always points a way, there's always a reason to think something.

Our emotions and our thoughts are the best compassess we have to navigate our experience in life. But we need to understand that these compasses are not pointing directly to the truth. But they are swirling around it.

06/01/2021

I thought there was something inherently wrong with me. And that made it impossible for me to heal any pattern, addiction or compulsion before I learned that I was not caring for my self and that my attempt to heal was coming from hate.

Anything you try to do from a place of rejecting your self does not work.

What always works is to love your self and be curious to know who you really are with a deep willingness to connect to You. Find your Gratitude. You cannot be grateful for anything without loving your self.

02/12/2020

I was afraid of God and the world at large. I was taught a religion that had me fear not believing it.
I thought it was dangerous to be alive and that i had to protect my self from my own thinking, with more thinking, drowning my self with worry and shame. Always swinging my sword in the air of my own mind, motivated by the fear of my next thought.
Now me and God are partners, sometimes, one and the same.
As I surrender my life to the infinite wisdom and let myself be guided by the depth of my heart.
Do you believe it's possible for you to live a life IN love?
**ra