13/07/2026
Your boyfriend is scientifically misinformed. Candida (which causes yeast infections) naturally lives on everyone's body and is not an STI. An overgrowth can be triggered by antibiotics, stress, poor hygiene, or diet, meaning he is solely responsible for his own fungal health. [1, 2, 3, 4, 5]
The Facts About Candida
Not an STI: While Candida can be passed back and forth during s*x, it is naturally occurring and not s*xually transmitted in the traditional sense. [1, 2]Equal Opportunity: Men develop yeast infections (balanitis) of their own accord, often due to a lack of thorough drying, moisture buildup, or a weakened immune system. [1]The Ping-Pong Effect: If you have an active yeast infection, s*x can aggravate it. However, blaming you for his infection ignores all the other lifestyle factors that cause fungal overgrowth. [1, 2]
How to Handle the Situation
Get on the same page: Communicate the medical reality that Candida is not a s*xually transmitted disease.Get tested: If either of you has recurring symptoms, both of you should see your respective doctors for proper diagnosis and treatment.Address relationship dynamics: Unfairly blaming a partner for health issues is a red flag for deeper issues in communication, trust, or emotional maturity