10/05/2026
母亲节，关于爱的另一面
母爱，不是每一个人都拥有的幸运。
有的母亲，用一生的时间陪在你身边，嘘寒问暖，记得你最喜欢吃什么，记得在你最难过的时候递上一杯热茶。那种爱，无人能比。你可能到很老以后才会明白，原来那些年她做的每一件小事，都是一种无声的宣告 “我在，你不用怕”。
但也有另一种母亲。她或许不擅长表达，甚至给孩子留下过伤口。你们之间的关系，不那么容易说清。说爱，好像有些复杂；说恨，却又不忍心。
那些隔阂，那些缺席，那些没有说出口的话，一直压在心里。到了今天这样的日子，别人都在庆祝，自己反而更难过。
可无论如何，她曾怀胎十月，忍受身体与情绪的变化，也曾冒着生命危险，疼到天昏地暗，从鬼门关走一回，把我们带来这个世界。
或许她不完美，或许她也有自己的伤痛与无能为力，但那份辛苦是真实存在的。
所以，不管她后来成了什么样的母亲，至少在最初的那一刻，她是用命把你带来这个世界的。
当然，这不是要用这些去抵消什么，也不是要你强迫自己感恩。只是想说，就算这份爱不完整，就算里面有很多遗憾，那最初的一刻，她给过你的，也是真实的。
我很庆幸，自己拥有一个很爱我、也很伟大的母亲。从小失去的父爱，母亲都努力地尝试补足。她一个人把我抚养长大，幸好还有外婆和舅舅一起帮忙照顾，才有今天的我。
母亲为了我，担心我被人欺负，甚至选择不再嫁人。她很少阻止我想做的事情，更多时候只是提醒、支持，然后默默相信，她的女儿不会让她失望。而我，也一直把这份深深的恩情，牢牢记在心里。
今天，无论你的母亲是哪一种，无论你们的关系是亲密还是复杂，都请允许自己有一点点柔软。对她，也对自己。
母爱从来不是一个非黑即白的故事。它有缺口，有重量，有时候让人喘不过气，有时候，却又成为你这一生最深的底气。
母亲节这一天，除了感谢那些一直用心付出的母亲，也愿我们能对那些不完美的母亲，多一份理解与慈悲。
愿天下所有母亲，都能被温柔以待。
也愿爱与光，送到每一位母亲心里。
给母亲一个拥抱，然后祝福她母亲节快乐。
母德配天地，慈恩似海深。
恩泽润子孙，寸草报春晖。
无论如何，你在这里。
这本身，就是一个开始。
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Mother’s Day, The Other Side of Love
A mother’s love is not a blessing that everyone is lucky enough to have.
Some mothers spend their whole lives by your side, caring for you, remembering your favorite food, remembering to hand you a warm cup of tea when you are at your lowest. That kind of love is incomparable. You may only understand when you are much older that every little thing she did all those years was a silent declaration:
“I’m here, you don’t have to be afraid.”
But there is also another kind of mother. Perhaps she is not good at expressing herself, and may even have left wounds in her child’s heart. The relationship between you is not easy to explain. To call it love feels complicated; to call it hate feels unbearable.
Those distances, those absences, those words left unsaid, stay pressed deep inside the heart. On a day like this, while everyone else is celebrating, you may instead feel even sadder.
But no matter what, she once carried you for ten months, endured the changes in her body and emotions, and risked her life, suffering through unbearable pain, walking once through the gates of death to bring you into this world.
Perhaps she was not perfect. Perhaps she also had her own pain and helplessness. But that hardship was real.
So no matter what kind of mother she became later on, at least in that very first moment, she brought you into this world with her life.
Of course, this is not meant to erase anything, nor to force you to feel grateful. It is only to say that even if this love was incomplete, even if it carried many regrets, what she gave you in that first moment was real too.
I am very fortunate to have a mother who loves me deeply and is truly great. The fatherly love I lost since childhood, my mother tried her best to make up for it. She raised me on her own, and thankfully my grandmother and uncle also helped care for me, which is why I am who I am today.
For my sake, my mother worried that I would be bullied, and even chose not to remarry. She rarely stopped me from doing the things I wanted to do. Most of the time, she simply reminded me, supported me, and quietly believed that her daughter would never disappoint her.
And I have always kept this deep gratitude firmly in my heart.
Today, no matter what kind of mother you have, whether your relationship is close or complicated, please allow yourself to soften a little.
Toward her, and toward yourself too.
A mother’s love has never been a black-and-white story. It has cracks and weight. Sometimes it makes you feel suffocated, and sometimes it becomes the deepest source of strength in your life.
On Mother’s Day, besides thanking those mothers who have always loved and cared wholeheartedly, may we also offer a little more understanding and compassion to imperfect mothers.
May all mothers in the world be treated gently.
And may love and light reach every mother’s heart.
Give your mother a hug, and wish her a Happy Mother’s Day.
A mother’s virtue stands equal to heaven and earth, her loving grace as deep as the sea.
Her kindness nourishes generations, while even a blade of grass longs to repay the warmth of spring sunlight.
No matter what, you are here.
That itself is a beginning.
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