14/08/2026
Common HR Mistake #4: Avoiding Difficult Conversations with Employees
Not every employee issue is a disciplinary issue.
But when a pattern of poor performance, disruptive behaviour, non-compliance, or leadership dysfunction is allowed to continue simply because the conversation is uncomfortable, the problem eventually becomes an organizational problem.
I recently encountered a situation within an organization where internal challenges among members of the executive were affecting the organization's ability to move forward.
It reinforced an important lesson:
Avoiding difficult conversations does not create harmony. It often creates dysfunction.
Whether you're dealing with an employee who consistently underperforms, a manager who creates conflict, or even an executive member who is no longer fulfilling their responsibilities, leaders have to be willing to address the issue.
And here's something organizations sometimes overlook:
Being an executive or committee member does not automatically make someone untouchable.
For organizations governed by a constitution, bylaws, policies, or other governing documents, there may be established procedures for addressing misconduct, non-performance, breaches of duty, conflicts of interest, or other circumstances that may warrant removal from office.
The answer, however, is not to simply remove someone because they are difficult or unpopular.
The process matters.
✔️ Understand what the policies, constitution, bylaws, and applicable laws require.
✔️ Document the concerns and the impact on the organization.
✔️ Give the individual an opportunity to respond.
✔️ Follow the prescribed disciplinary, grievance, or removal procedure.
✔️ Ensure decisions are made fairly, objectively, and by the appropriate authority.
✔️ Keep proper records of the process and decisions.
Good HR practices, along with good IR practices, are not about avoiding difficult situations. They are about handling them properly.
Sometimes the most responsible thing a leader can do is have the conversation everyone else has been avoiding.
Because protecting one person's position at the expense of an entire organization's effectiveness isn't good leadership.
Difficult conversations are uncomfortable.
Unresolved problems are expensive.