05/06/2026
Exercise is NOT the thing keeping most women overweight.
Believing they need exercise to lose weight is.
And before people get triggered:
I’m not saying exercise is bad.
I lift.
I run marathons.
I’m a personal trainer.
I think exercise is one of the best things you can do for your health, muscle, aging, confidence, brain, longevity, and quality of life.
But when it comes to FAT LOSS specifically?
The calories burned through exercise are usually much smaller than people think.
A hard workout might burn 250–400 calories.
That’s a couple glasses of wine.
A muffin.
A “healthy” salad with dressing.
A few handfuls of snacks while making dinner.
What matters WAY more for most women is:
• their nutrition
• their consistency
• their relationship with food
• their daily movement
And especially something called NEAT.
NEAT = Non-Exercise Activity Thermogenesis.
Basically:
the calories you burn outside the gym.
Walking around.
Cleaning.
Cooking.
Standing.
Moving during the day.
Being active as a human.
And this is the part nobody talks about:
A lot of women do intense workouts…
then unconsciously move LESS the rest of the day because they’re exhausted.
So they burn fewer calories overall than they think.
Meanwhile another woman who doesn’t “work out” at all…
but eats well, walks more, moves more, and stays consistent with nutrition…
ends up losing the weight.
This matters because I know so many women who gave up before they even started.
Because they thought:
“If I can’t wake up at 5am.”
“If I can’t go to the gym 5x/week.”
“If I don’t like exercise.”
“If I’m too busy with work and kids.”
“…then I guess I’ll never lose the weight.”
That’s simply not true.
You do NOT need to become a fitness girl overnight to change your body.
You need a strategy you can actually sustain.
Because at the end of the day…
being at a healthier weight with no formal exercise is STILL healthier than remaining obese because the process felt impossible.
Start where you are.
Do what you can.
Build from there.
And if later you add lifting?
Amazing.
But don’t let the “perfect plan” stop you from changing y