03/10/2020
This will help you in your Relationship or Marriage!!................................
Beloved,
You might wanna consider this a heads-up for your relationship or marriage.
MEN GET MENTALLY TIRED.
Never you allow your man to enter this place !!. A place where your man is mentally tired of giving, breaking over back, working his hat off, and doing everything to keep you happy and cared for. The moment you let him drift to this point you have lost him.
If you've got a man who is doing everything for you, everything to make sure you are okay and happy, please return the favor real quick. Start doing for him too, start telling him "Honey relax let me handle this."
Start using phrases like "Honey I will go there and do that for you."
"Sweetheart I will get that for you, you don't have to worry."
"Honey, I will cover the Bills this month, it's on me."
Men can get really mentally tired quick when they keep giving and giving and giving. And the moment we get to this point we start doing things for you out of an obligation as your man, not because we really honestly want to do it.
Don't let him get there Ma'am. A man who is mentally tired can still be with you while he is gone. He can still be calling you and be gone. He can still be showing up to dates and be gone from you. He will reply that text the moment it comes in and still be gone. He can be physically present with you and be mentally absent from you. It is because he has given and given and given so much that his consciousness has gotten used to not getting anything back.
If it means skipping your lunch to save up to cover for him, do it. If it means not attending that wedding so you can save up that dress money and get something for him, do it, give your man a break from a mental burden. Especially financial burdens, these can be the most depressing mental stress a man can face. And trust men, he won't tell you. But deep inside he is wishing to hear you say "Honey I have paid for this, I have paid for that, don't worry."
Or maybe offer to lift off other burdens that are not related to money.
Maybe you can try becoming his peace, for once. Find a burden to lift off him. Find an excuse to give him a rest. Mental tiredness is the worse kind of breakup you can ever know, that moment when the joy that comes with doing things for you is no longer there, gone.
You may not understand, but I know the men do.