06/07/2026
There is a profound difference between a typical preference… and a nervous system that is chronically running on high alert and sympathetic driven.
When a child’s baseline looks like anxiety, shutdown, panic, or extreme sensitivity, we have to look deeper.
Sometimes, the body is still responding as if it is not safe.
Early survival mechanisms, like the Fear Paralysis Reflex, can stay switched on — keeping the child in a protective state.
When this happens, their little system may struggle to feel safe, adapt to transitions, tolerate change, or trust the people around them.
In the clinic, I see loving parents exhausted from trying to “talk” their child out of anxiety.
But listen…
You cannot logic a nervous system out of an active reflex.
We have to help the body feel safe first.
Full video is on YouTube.