08/27/2026
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😂 “Can I just ask you a quick breastfeeding question?”
Sure! And then 17 messages later, I’m basically doing a full lactation consult in your Facebook Messenger. 😂
Here’s the thing…
I LOVE helping. I genuinely do. If I can point you toward a helpful resource or answer a general question, I’m happy to!
But when the question becomes:
“Why is my baby doing this?”
“Is my supply low?”
“Should I pump more?”
“Why does breastfeeding hurt?”
“Is this normal?”
“What should I change?”
…that’s no longer just a “quick tip.” 😅
Because I can’t responsibly give individualized lactation advice based on a few messages. I need the whole picture. Baby’s age, weight gain, feeding patterns, diapers, your supply, pumping, pain, medical history, goals… ALL the things.
And honestly? You deserve better than a guess from me in the DMs.
When you book a consultation, you’re not paying me for five minutes of advice.
You’re paying for my education, training, experience, assessment, clinical reasoning, resources, follow-up, and time.
And yes… this is my job. ❤️
I am incredibly blessed to get to do something I love AND provide for my family doing it.
So if I respond to your message with, “I’d love to help! Let’s get you scheduled for a consultation,” please know I’m not being rude.
I’m not trying to gatekeep breastfeeding information.
And I’m definitely not sitting over here rubbing my hands together thinking, “HAHA! Another mom I can charge!” 😂
I’m simply recognizing when a question needs professional, individualized care rather than a quick Facebook answer.
Free information? Absolutely.
Free personalized clinical care? That’s where I have to draw the line.
Because my time has value, your situation deserves attention, and my family deserves a paycheck. 💗
And I think we can all agree that moms deserve an IBCLC who has enough time and energy left after work to go home and be a mom, too. 😉