Since His Soul & Spirit Flew. A Mom's Journey

08/26/2026

Join all those walking this year.

08/06/2026

08/01/2026

08/01/2026

I know many of you have heard this before or seen me post these photographs.

They are so incredibly special and just one small part of the journey since Tanner died.

The one on the left was taken at our special beach.
I was of course in a dream like state having just lost our boy.

That is his aunty Fantasia throwing his ashes up and giving him back to the ocean the sky and the universe.

The shape his ashes took are to me mind blowing. The photo on the right is a bird that would fly over my yard almost stop in mid flight and let me take the photo. Every year for three years.

Anyway………..
tomorrow our Son would of been 35 I don’t like using the term heavenly birthday.
I will do my best to celebrate because that day thirty five years ago was the greatest day of my entire life. Nothing will ever come close to that. I’m so incredibly filled with gratitude that I was chosen to be that kids mom. He was the most awesome child and I LIKED HIM and just as important he liked me too!!!

Thank for your gift of time if you chose to stop and read this.

🦋🦋🦋🦋☮️💜🎵🦋🦋🦋🦋

07/09/2026

You are not alone. Those who have not been through it do not understand. That’s ok, it’s also ok NOT to be ok!!! Be gentle to yourself.

06/22/2026

Today we celebrate the fathers.