05/29/2026
*Things I used to think mattered... that I barely think about anymore*
When I first got into fitness, I thought *every* *little* thing mattered.
I worried about:
ā Missing a workout
ā Eating dessert
ā Not knowing how to track soemthing perfectly
ā Going on vacation
ā The scale being up 2 pounds
ā Not being āsore enoughā
ā Having an āoffā week
ā Eating at a restaurant
ā Taking a rest day
Now?
I barely think about any of those things
(and hoenstly feel bad for past rhi cus WOW i made life so much harder than it needed to be).
Iāve been in what is probably the busiest social season of my adult life.
Between travel, weddings, dinners, weekends away, bachelorette parties, hsoting friends, family events, and everything in between, past me would have been convinced I was sabotaging my goals.
Current me?
Absolutely chilling.
Because after years of my own journey and nearly a decade of coaching, Iāve learned that progress isnāt built by avoiding real life.
Itās built by learning how to navigate it.
What I care about now is actually pretty boring:
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Training consistently for years, not weeks
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Eating mainly whole foods (but not JUST, have fun ones in the mix too)
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Getting enough sleep
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Managing stress (whew, this was a big one as a biz owner)
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Showing up even when motivation isnāt there (cus its sure not always!!)
Most people struggle with LIFELONG health and fitness because theyāre treating completely normal parts of life as if theyāre setbacks.
A restaurant meal isnāt a problem.
A missed workout isnāt a problem.
A vacation isnāt a problem.
ā¼ļøLife is supposed to include those thingsā¼ļø
The people who get the best results arenāt usually the most perfect.
Theyāre the ones who stop panicking every time life happens.
BOOM. Mic drop.
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