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Communication tips for Alzheimer's disease or another type of dementia.Never Argue → AgreeNever Reason → DivertNever Sha...
06/11/2026

Communication tips for Alzheimer's disease or another type of dementia.

Never Argue → Agree
Never Reason → Divert
Never Shame → Distract
Never Lecture → Reassure
Never say "Remember" → Reminisce
Never say "I Told You" → Repeat
Never say "You Can't" → Focus on What They Can Do
Never Demand → Ask
Never Condescend → Encourage
Never Force → Reinforce

Dementia changes how the brain processes information, so the way we communicate often needs to change too.

Small shifts in communication can create more peace, dignity, and connection...for everyone.

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06/11/2026

Tired after eating? Try this...

I used to sneak out to my car after lunch just to take a power nap (not kidding).
What finally helped?

A 10-minute walk. That's it.

A short walk after a meal can help lower blood sugar spikes, improve insulin sensitivity, and keep your energy from crashing...and ofcourse, this helps prevent dementia long-term!

No drowning yourself in coffee.
No staring at your screen pretending to work.

Just a 10-minute walk.

Worked for me, I'm sure it will work for you.

06/09/2026

I'm naturally an optimistic, happy-go-lucky type of person, but the reality of caregiving is that resentment is part of the journey.

Accepting that fact creates space for healing.

Pretending you're fine or bottling everything up doesn't make the feelings disappear. It just gives them room to grow.

With dementia and other chronic illnesses, grief, anger, and pain show up over and over. Sometimes daily.

What's helped me:
• Acknowledge that you're angry
• Talk about it
• Let yourself feel it—cry, vent to a friend, scream into a pillow, post a video about it. Just don't keep it trapped inside.

Even 5 years after my dad passed, new unexpected waves of pain still surface. So I won't tell you it magically goes away.

But I will tell you this:
• Time softens the edges
• Carrying it alone only makes it heavier
• The more I heal myself, the less anger I carry
• There's no glory in pretending you're OK, when you're not.

Some of the most expensive things don't cost us money💰 Lost sleep.Mental energy.Time we'll never get back.Peace of mind....
06/09/2026

Some of the most expensive things don't cost us money💰

Lost sleep.
Mental energy.
Time we'll never get back.
Peace of mind.

Be careful what you give those things away to.

Let go of what doesn't serve you.

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06/08/2026

One day he's running out in his underwear.
The next, he's struggling to lift his legs.

Truth is: Dementia doesn't always change things slowly.
Sometimes it feels like everything shifts overnight.

No matter how prepared you think you are, there will be moments that catch you off guard.

Be gentle with yourself.

You're navigating something that no one can fully prepare for. ❤️

06/07/2026

Put down what's stressing you out.
Reset, let it go. Tomorrow is another chance.

06/06/2026

Watching my little brother step into my dad's boots and carry on his legacy is hard to put into words.

So proud of you, bro bro. Keep crushing it. 🤠🐎🐄
Dad's looking down on you and smiling.

❤️

Moments like these feel like wins against dementia. Unexpected, and full of joy.

06/06/2026

Former party girl here. 🙋‍♀️
Giving up alcohol 🍸 was never on my bingo card.

Then my dad got dementia.🧠 🥺

I still enjoy the occasional whisky ginger beer at special occasions, but these days I'm a lot more intentional about what I put in my body.

Studies showed that alcohol use disorders were the strongest modifiable risk factor associated with dementia, particularly early-onset dementia (before age 65).

Maybe tonight, have one drink less. ❤️

06/05/2026

5 Tips for Traveling with Dementia ✈️
These tips aren’t just for airports. They’re helpful for doctor appointments, shopping centers, family events, restaurants, and any unfamiliar place.

As dementia progresses, both our worlds and theirs often become smaller. We stop going places. We avoid certain situations. Sometimes it just feels easier to stay home.
But life still happens. Medical appointments happen. Family events happen. Emergencies happen.

Thankfully, more public spaces are becoming aware of the unique challenges families like ours face.

A few things we learned the hard way with dad:
🌻 Look into the Hidden Disabilities Sunflower Program
🤫 Find quiet spaces and sensory rooms
📍 Consider a tracker
🚻 Use family bathrooms when available
🗣️ Carry communication cards to help explain your loved one’s condition when needed

There were plenty of other tips I wanted to include—giving yourself extra time, asking for accommodations ahead of time, wearing easy-to-spot clothing, taking a photo before leaving the house, and creating an emergency contact card—but I’ll save those for a future video.

The goal isn’t a perfect trip. It’s making the journey a little less stressful for everyone involved.

Resources:
Dementia Friendly America: dfamerica.org
Hidden Disabilities Sunflower: hdsunflower.com
Road ID: roadid.com
Communication Cards: http://dementiaaide.com/products/dementia-communication-card

06/04/2026

Before they were a person with dementia, they were a child with big dreams.

They fell in love. Built careers. Raised families. Made mistakes. Had adventures. Laughed until they cried. Worried about things that never happened.

Sometimes dementia can make us focus so much on what has been lost that we forget the incredible life that came before it. It also changes them into people we no longer recognize.

They are more than their diagnosis.

Remember the life they lived, the dreams they had, and the person they've always been.

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